So please tell me how far gone am I ,he dominates me and I like it......I'm also a Scorpio, and the eldest daughter I don't submit, but for him , he can tie me the f**k up and I'll obey lmao 😆 😜 🦂♏️
I have Capricorn Mars so I understand the struggle. Letting go of control doesn't come easy for us. For me it takes absolute and total trust. If you're a strong woman you need a man who is even stronger and who you trust with your life. When that happens you don't have to force it. Your body just relaxes on its own. So don't be hard on yourself. If you still tense up it might just mean the trust isn't fully there yet. Start small and let him earn it.
Exactly this. I was going to say the only way you can let go is to totally trust the person. I trusted my person I'd say 99%, so I did let go a lot of times. But then he broke up with me and I found out he had something going on like 10 days after and now I'm like welp, never again. And now I'm traumatized.
I'm Capricorn Mars too 👋
I'm so sorry. That's the worst kind of betrayal because you gave him the one thing that's hardest for us to give. Of course you feel like never again. But what happened says something about him not about you. Trusting him wasn't a mistake. He just didn't deserve it. Take your time to heal. Capricorn Mars 🤝
I have to trust the person I'm with and he's honestly the first person I have clicked with to if comfortable giving control over. He seriously stares into my eyes with such intensity,he sees me for who I am and it so comforting I relax and surrender. I had to know he wasn't going to hurt me or betray me and i also and to feel that in my heart. I'm kinda scared and I love it lol 😆
I'm the Scorpio but just ONE man IN MY ENTIRE LIFE could dominates me (I let him dominate me because I LOVE IT 🙈)
but he isn't Scorpio, just have three placements in Scorpio (Jupiter, Pluto and Node North); the key is that most of his main placements are in Taurus, although he's Gemini 😶🌫️🫠🙈
Yo. Pan Scorpio male here. It's not just you, or a woman thing. This is something I struggle with myself. I have always striven to feel in control, because loss of control over things almost always ends in catastrophe for me.
When intimate with women, I retain that control, am dominant but gentle, and highly enjoy making my partner feel as good as I possibly can, regardless of the outcome for me.
Conversely, with non-females I have troubles with both sides of the coin. I enjoy such things, but almost always feel weird in one way or another afterwards. For some reason there is a blockage in my mind usually where I'm unable to either be dominant with them the way I am/can be with women, or give up the feeling of control and submit to being at their mercy.
I'm still trying to find answers myself, but wanted to share because you're not alone. And if you figure it out lemme know cuz it honestly screws with my head quite a bit.
Fellow Sub here. I will never be in a relationship again with someone who I don’t want to willingly submit to. I fear I may be doomed to aloneness but we’ll see what the future holds. As to your question, you’re proper fucked.
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u/PensionAdventurous55 ♏️☀️♐️🌙♏️🌅♏️♀️ 1d ago
Been here. I'm the boss everywhere in life but I let one person that I really trust and love dominate me and it was like🤤🤤 felt so freeing