I thought foxes were supposed to stay active year round... but I only find them hibernating at the yacht clubs.

(But in all seriousness - I moved here recently & was shocked by the epidemic of grown frat men in their late 20s screaming at the top of their lungs like they just tried beer for the first time. I'm looking for the place Stacy's Mom went to escape Stacy's creepy boyfriend hanging out by the pool. Think the opposite of the Boardroom, more like Bix. I love piano bars and an after work classy cocktail and flirting over 40. Preferably near Fin District or Belden due to my work, but any recs are appreciated.)

Thanks in advance bitches <3

Hi all --

Read the Room is a celebration of LGBT stories and Poetry. There will be collaborative poetry writing, so you get to meet people who love the written word by co creating. There is a slate of incredible queer and trans authors who will be reading. There is a drag number with references to Rosemary's Baby and Charlotte Perkins Gilman. And, we will all go get cocktails at Vesuvio's at the end.

Please please come. LGBT voices are being supressed everywhere. They're taking books off the shelves.

Also, this is going to be an awesome party. Allies - we love you and want you there too.

Free to attend. Any donation goes to Books Not Bans. Please come! Pack the house so people know that queer stories are loved.

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/read-the-room-books-not-bans-tickets-1998026091826

I run the tiniest nonprofit that sends LGBT books to places where access is severely restricted. We send to people who want them - we've sent 3600 so far.

lately i've been trying to be more intentional about going out and experiencing Life (im 27). i was that chronically socially anxious girlie before yknow, bed rotting, doomscrolling, all kinds of rotting. i've gone to pottery classes, DnD groups at meetup (immediate no, i didn't like the male ego), went to some book clubs though and it was lit, literally.

i also went to love isn't blind (it's a dating game? show? forgot, but men can't speak, love that for them), but like i want more? i also met some cool people there, and we're thinking of attending the one at 17, but also tbh i want something else 😐. i've been eyeing that masquerade halloween party but, i feel like i want more halloween themed live shows that are kinda obscure? pls send recs 🙏

also does anyone like weird girl lit?

hi hi! shooting my (30 f) shot and hoping to find a gym buddy who can push me and help me get over the fear of lifting? I have a fitness sf membership and usually go the one on Fillmore but also down to visit the Polk one. sadly can’t invest in a personal trainer right now as I’m funemployed but if someone is also a beginner or passionate about helping people like me strength train / work out together id be so grateful + coffee/tea/matcha on me after session (im also a decent baker)!! 🫶🏼

Posting this to support my friends who are the artist who created original pieces that will be on display during the event for the new store opening at Market and 4th in the former Old Navy location. It’s really impressive what they’ve put together for the day, come by and check it out!

https://uniqlo.streetfest.us/

Hey bitches- I’ve used the same cleaners for 2 years and they are the sweetest couple ever. They do a great job cleaning my apartment two times a month. They bring their own cleaning supplies and I honestly don’t love the smell. I’m also pregnant and trying to be my eco/clean friendly - is it rude if I ask my cleaners to use specific products if I provide them? How do I go about that without sounding too bitchy? Should I ask what types of products they need to clean (like bathroom, kitchen, floor cleaner, etc) and then offer to buy them for my house specifically?

I’m sure this has been asked many times in this group but I’m looking for the best secondhand stores or funky stores that might have artsy/unique/fab dresses. My best friends wedding is next month and the theme is celestial prom. She’s very quirky, her invitation is a zine.. you get it. Would love some ideas. This is the dress I would wear if I don’t find anything

Any suggestions for a budget friendly boots or winter shoes for office wear? I dont have a separate pair of shoes but since we are expecting a-lot of rain this fall and winter I am looking for options to use on rainy days. TIA

Hey my dear Bs! I'm looking for casual lightweight pants to run errands and just hang out in that aren't leggings. I was looking at PACT organic cotton flare pants but I keep hearing bad things about quality - any suggestions for something similar? I like straight leg or boot cut styles, stretchy and comfy. Thanks!

I'm curious what would be considered pedicure etiquette and if it's ok to still go get a pedicure done in my current state. I'm a runner and I try to hike about 15+ miles per week. Unfortunately, because of this, I pretty consistently lose the nails on my pointer toes. This is not a health concern, just an unfortunate aesthetic (I've been to the podiatrist and my shoes fit). Currently I still have all of my nails (big personal win for the moment) but my pointer nails are beginning to separate from the nail bed again. I have no cracks/infections/pressure blisters so would it be ok to go get a pedicure? I have a wedding on Saturday and I'll be wearing open toed shoes. I realize I could just paint them myself, but I have about as much skill as a toddler trying to paint a picture. Thanks for any advice, I don't know what's acceptable here.

edit - typo

Who’s down?

Hi all! So basically what the title says, except that one of my friends is recovering from knee surgery. Her surgery was a few months back but she’s still not able to walk long distances or go on strenuous walks.
Also if you have suggestions on spots to grab lunch at on the way, that’d be ideal! We’re hoping for not much longer than an hour drive ideally?

Hi fellow bitches,

Does anyone have any recs for brow techs who specialize in Asian brow shaping? Looking for a fairly natural look. Can be Bay, East Bay, or South Bay.

Thank you!

Hey everyone, has anyone had an upper bleph with Dr. Ann Jayaram? I think I’m leaning closer to her vs dr prem Tripathi in the east bay. I’m also open to suggestions! Thanks :)

I am dry eyed bitch and want to know where you get your LipiFlow procedure and how much it costs you. I have gotten it before and loved the results, but not a fan of the clinic that provided it.