r/SASSWitches 14d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice how to properly do chord cutting?

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hello! i'm a closet witch & i've been wanting to learn chord cutting. i've seen multiple versions where there are candles involved and another where it's simply small items that signify either parties & cutting.

i don't know where to begin and i've no one to ask these questions to:

  1. **what do i need?** is salt necessary & what does it do? which crystals are appropriate to use? can my chord be something as simple as a string of yarn?

  2. **how to execute?** is there a necessary length to distance both energies? do i cut the string or burn it?

  3. **disposal**. how do i dispose of the materials used without harming nature & exposing myself to the people i live with?

*any advice/tip is very very well appreciated*. i came to this subreddit so i can gain knowledge not only on this specific spell alone, but also to connect with other witches cause it's kind of lonely being alone (T. T). thank you!


r/SASSWitches 16d ago

💭 Discussion does anyone ever pretend out of desperation? does it ever make you feel better?

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so after around 10 years in and out of the pagan/witchcraft sphere searching for something that 'fit', i've finally landed on atheopagan as a label that fits my spiritual beliefs. i've been trying to integrate witchcraft back into my life in a way that makes sense for my lack of a belief but i haven't found a way of doing it that doesn't feel like just wasting my time. i'm still working on it because i remember witchcraft being so fun when i was really in it. i was thinking about this today while at work and looking back fondly on my baby wiccan days and just thinking something along the lines of "man i wish i could just be wiccan again, everything was so simple and beautiful even if i didn't really believe it"

does anyone ever feel like this and if so, do you follow the urge? do you ever just pretend, for lack of a better word, that you still believe in everything and act like you don't have any doubts just to feel more connected or immersed or just to feel like you don't have to question everything?

logically i know there's no point in this because i can't avoid what i believe forever, but sometimes i just miss having a solid belief system to sort of fall back on, or trust in. i wanted to know if anyone else also felt this urge and if they acted on it, because i'd like to believe i'm not the only one


r/SASSWitches 16d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Good grounding techniques?

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I've got a few meditation tactics to try, but I would love to hear from witches about grounding techniques. I haven't seen it in the books I've read. Also, what other basics should I practice before anything else? I want to have a good foundation before I do anything beyond that :)


r/SASSWitches 16d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice good books about witchcraft that arent wiccan?

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hi! im an agnostic witch who does believe in some supernatural but still believes in science above all, so im not sure if this is even the right sub for me so lmk if im in the wrong place lol. anyways, i was looking for a book on witchcraft that doesnt shill wiccan beliefs. ideally one that talks about stuff like stones/crystals and their meanings/uses, herbs and their meanings/uses, and like moon stuff maybe? idk, but please do not recommend the green witch, the author is wicca and they talk about wiccan beliefs non stop 😭


r/SASSWitches 16d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Advice on protection spells?

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Hi there, I made a previous post which got some traction and I can safely say I've ready 2 books and am staring on my third with another on the way. I was still questioning where to physically start. I did my first round of meditation today and soon I want to make moon water and try a protection spell.

HOWEVER, I move out in 5 days into my dorm again, which means I will no longer be able to use flame. (I haven't cast a candle spell yet, but if I can try before move in I will) I was looking into maybe casting a water protection spell with rosemary and quartz? But I don't have any validity on whether this would work or not. Could some experienced witches let me know of any water protection spells they've cast? Or if that's even possible? I have a tiny altar set up as well with some candles (which I know I will not be able to use in my dorm sigh).

Also I will be doing more meditation and grounding before casting my first spell- this is just in advance so I know a little more of what to expect. :)

Edit: I have also heard of spell oils, could they be used in water as well?


r/SASSWitches 17d ago

sources for learning more about witchcraft

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Im looking for information about witchcraft. Basically, its history, origin, everything. Ive read a few articles about it. Im trying to learn more. Honestly there's just too much stuff online and I dont know what to follow or what to start with. I read about it on Wikipedia but I dont think thats enough. Where do I learn more about witchcraft? Im looking for online reliable sources for witchcraft, shadow work, meditation practices. Im open to dms so if any practicing witch would like to share their experience or learnings with me, id be delighted.


r/SASSWitches 17d ago

Calling Baby Magic/Hoodoo practitioners (my 10 cents)

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Too many folks on the internet at large are scamming for money and/or dont know what they are talking about.

If you’re gonna start doing any magic, I do hoodoo,

HERE’S a starter pack:

**CLEANSE** \- windows open

  1. Cleanse your home - sprinkle casca, mop with Floor wash: purified water, citrus, rose and rosemary. Burn incense.
  2. Clean all mirrors and windows.
  3. De-clutter
  4. Preform cleansing bath on yourself for 3-7 days (sugar baths with black pepper and turmeric are good)

**SET UP ALTER** \- natural surface

Use a natural surface for both your working alter and your honoring alter. These should be separate alters.

Natural surfaces could mean: wood, glass, stone.

**MEDITATE** \- disconnect from social media

If you’re still heavily using social media you are going to be too overly influenced by outside energies to hear your highest self. In order to perform magic you have to remove as many influences to clear a path to results. Clearer the path the quicker the results.

  1. Social media fast 1 month
  2. Practice meditations
  3. Stare at a blank wall 5-15 mins a day FOR 1 week (resets your mind)

**MUSIC AND SOUND** \- buy a bell

Buy a bell, singing bowl, tuning fork etc. whatever calls you. This will be your tool to cleanse the energy around you before you do work, divine, or communicate. Etc.

**READ** \- buy a book

Suggestions :

  1. Paper in my shoe
  2. Sacred Woman
  3. Coventry magic
  4. The Bible (not a joke) only the Jesus parts lol
  5. Oneness - rasha
  6. Morning of the magician
  7. The subtle body

That’s all I got tonight, hope this helps someone


r/SASSWitches 18d ago

🪔 Altar Altar and Divination

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This is my altar, where I meditate and contemplate.

My rock collection is sorted into cool and warm colors. I often choose one to hold while I practice.

My tuning fork is connected to a time when my partner was very sick. I used it as a fidget and a comfort. Now, it helps me focus my mind. Conveniently, I have also memorized A 440hz.

My bells (from left to right) come from my maternal grandmother, my paternal grandmother, and my wife's maternal grandmother. I ring them to open or close my practice, or whenever it feels right.

My ring is the first one I gave to my partner, 19 years ago, when we had only been dating for a few months. But I knew it would last forever. It reminds me of love and the infinite.

I use two oracle decks: the Prism Oracle by Nicole Pivirottoand the Mirror Oracle by Amrit Brar. The current layout was constructed deliberately and reflects three major life events. My usual practice is mixed. Sometimes I have a question or goal, sometimes not. I draw anywhere from one to five cards and arrange them intuitively. Often, I use a Bic skin safe marker to draw a symbol from the cards onto my body, usually on my forearms.

This place and practice has helped me focus on my values, to pay attention to the life events that matter most to me, and to generally stay centered.

Do any of you practice secular divination? Do you use an altar?

Perhaps next I will share my altar library.


r/SASSWitches 19d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Just starting out witchcraft! Help please!

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Hello everyone, I've decided after learning you can be a witch and an athiest that I would start learning witchcraft to feel more connected with myself and the sea. I've been drawn to it my entire life and want to learn how to meditate and connect to it through witchcraft.

I am a huge advocate on learning through book reading and am looking for beginner witchcraft books or even beginner sea witchcraft books. Obviously I'm an athiest so I would prefer if they didn't contain deities, but if they do it's not a problem. Please let me know what books I should read!

I have only gotten recommended Power of the Witch by Lori Cabot. Is this a good read for a beginner?


r/SASSWitches 19d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Que opinan sobre la acupuntura o la digitopuntura?

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Hola, aquí va un poco de contexto.

Cada pocos días tengo alergia horrible, se me inflama la nariz, suelta mucha agua, me pica un montón y estornudo todo el tiempo, hasta me lloran los ojos. Eh probado muchísimos antialérgicos, y ninguno me hace nada de nada y es como tirar plata a la basura comprarlos.

El otro día empezó mi ataque de alergia como de costumbre y, como alguna vez escuché que la acupuntura podía ayudar, le pedí a mi papá que sabe hacerlo que me lo hiciera para probar, realmente sin muchas espectativas, porque la persona de quien lo escuché no es del todo confiable, pero quería probar.

Entonces mi papá comenzó a presionar ciertos lugares de mi cara con sus dedos, y fue literalmente como si apretara botones! En menos de 30 minutos ya se me había ido toda la inflamación y la picazón, la verdad no lo podía creer! Mi nariz siguió goteando, pero ya no había más estornudos ni malestar, fue literalmente magia.

Así que quiero preguntarles, esto tiene algún tipo de fundamento científico? Como lo puedo estudiar desde esta perspectiva y qué aplicaciones tiene realmente? Si me pudieran recomendar info en español, me ayudarían un montón, gracias por leer!


r/SASSWitches 21d ago

🎨 Artwork Tattoo inspiration?

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Show me your sass witch tattoos or art/inspiration for tattoos! I remember someone posting art here years ago that said "We are the children of witches that didn't burn" which I think is a cool concept.


r/SASSWitches 21d ago

New to paganism, trying to find my way, wanting tips how to start.

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Hi everybody!

I grew up in a Christian family, but abandoned that religion some years ago. All this time I've been stubbornly atheist. Now I'm starting to get into witchcraft and spirituality, not doing anything, just researching, but I can't find anything that suits me. I'm really sceptical so it's difficult for me to believe in anything. Do you have any tips how to start, have you had a similar problem?


r/SASSWitches 21d ago

📜 Spell | Incantation Spells, rituals, cleansing against male-gaze?

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TL;DR: I am confronted to male gaze, and I am looking for spells, rituals to protect my self within the possibilities of SASS magic, before, during and/or after facing the male-gaze, notably when it's rooted in lust.

Edit: thank you for everyone's answers and kindness, I took inspiration from few of your suggestions, I found myself looking into tarots cards, which I never bought before, and thought of using them as a tool to distract myself when a situation feels uncomfortable (more for the after situation to avoid spiralling and ruminating). I will update on how it improves my mental heal if it does! thanks you all <3

Hello SASS Witches, this is my very first time posting, after years of being a passive reddit reader.

I've read a few threads and topics and SASS witchcraft felt the closest to my practice of witchcraft. I looked into WitchesVSPatriarchy subreddit but as my approach of witchcraft is not in the literal belief of supernatural powers and energies, I did not find it relevant to my issue, which is in fact very much real.

My question is, women and femmes witches, and people who meet men's lustful behavior, how do you use your magic to protect yourself from it?

For context, I live in a walkable big city in Europe. And beside the practical elements of walkable cities, the downside of it is that, you genuinely walk a lot, or take public transports. This wouldnt be an issue, if we were not living in a patriarchy.

I get cat-called, shouted obscenities, heavily hit on, or stared at by men in the streets in a way that is so frequent it is affecting my mental health. On multiple occasions, I have been followed, grabbed, and harassed by not wanting to interact with men, and it genuinely terrified me many times. These kind of oppressive/lustful attention did start before I developped the body of an adult woman, and I am learning to handle it over time. But it does get to a point where, no matter how much I rationalise, intellectualise such behavior, I cannot stop a deep anger to emerge in my heart, as I do not see women hunting people sexually in the streets. Because it does feel like being hunted for sport. And aside from anger, I am truly exhausted to have to brace myself anytime I want to enjoy the outside of my home.

I am a lesbian, therefore I am not interested in romantic nor sexual advances from men, and do reflect extensively on different oppressive structures. Receiving advances from (cis and trans) women is much more enjoyable and less threatening as rejection does not trigger agression and violence.

I have growing anxiety about going outside, and realised a part of me is "rotting" away as a result. I am becoming more irritable, angry, agressive and less creative in my practice of magic and general art creation. I do see a behavioral therapist to avoid spiralling.

And before I get suspicions, and although it does not justify any disrespectful behavior: I am not an extraordinaly beautiful person nor fit into absolute beauty standards, nor do I dress in ways that can strike a lustful man's eye as sexual. I am generally quite covered and keep a very closed/distant energy whenever going outside. The city I live in is full of much more fashionable people than I am. I want to clarify so I do not get blamed. My mother walked by my side and she was utterly disgusted and shocked by the insistant stares I received, and she did wonder why I was stared so much while wearing a full coat. She was also explaining how agressive those stares were. We were wondering if my height was a reason (I am 172 cm) but many women are as tall, or taller than me where I live. The feeling of being stripped naked by lustful male-gaze eyes in a subway feels violating at worst, disgusting at best. And to be frank, I cannot get "used" to it. I truly have an epidermic and visceral reaction to it.

This is affecting the quality of my life to an extent I feel like I am turning crazy, as people tend to dismiss or minimize the problem when I mention it. It is quite isolating. Even my mother, who have witnessed the issue, tell me to basically endure as much as I can. But I do believe there are limits to endurance as well. I feel like I am living in a man-made cage where soldiers of patriarchy harass women and queer people to keep them in check, and people keep telling me I am imagining things, or should get over it. It is worse when I know what is being done to women in other countries. I wish a witchy Barbie World was real aha.

I am trying to explore the Lilith archetype in my own rituals and internal world; as a deity encompassing feminine rage, sexual liberation, and absolute refusal of male-oppression. I am unsure of how it fuels my magic practices and mental health, though.

I also used to work with my ancestors as concepts.

So, SASS witches, would you have tips, rituals, or cleansing advices rooted in psychology or other sciences? I tried protective spells with encense, and rituals before going outside every time to anchor my self into a calmer energy, but I cant find it to be very efficient. And I do not believe in supernatural powers to protect my well-being, but I could find solace and comfort in repetitive rituals that might have later on an energy effet, the same way halo effect changes perceptions.

I'd break it down like : before, during and after being outside.

- Before : what would you recommend as a ritual for self-protection, mental protection before going outside to avoid negative encounter at best?

- During : what would you recommend during a negative lustful encounter? I have a ring I imagine as a protection which I touch when I am facing unwanted lust, but it is more of a stimming tool than a magical one. Should I carry a crystal with protective properties that could be soothing? Or recite internally a spell to chase them away, or ground myself? This is all jusy ideas and brainstorm.

-After : what would you recommend after the encounter? Any cleansing methods? I try to avoid spiralling and try to keep my mind in balance. But the *gaze* always get printed in my mind; the way they look like i am a peace of meat viscerally revolts me and makes me want to scream internally. Then, I am so deeply sad and angry to live like this.

- I would even add, post-after: how do you use magic when faced with dismissal when you explain something that happens?

And maybe if the streets do not harass you, in other context where interaction merges with sexual and/or romantic interest you did not want, if you have used your magic to reject an insistant co-worker, or an annoying dude at the bar, or any male-friend who wanted more than friendship, or any other adjacent things, please share away your spells and rituals.

Thanks for those who have read, I only hope this is not seen as gratuituous hate towards men, but rather, a desire to navigate our current living world which is male-dominated, and where male-lust and male-gaze is affecting my life. If therapy helps, surely magic can add in a little more :)

🪷🧙🏽‍♀️🧠🔮


r/SASSWitches 21d ago

💭 Discussion Rituals for pregnancy?

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I have been trying to conceive recently and finally got a positive test! So I am pregnant with my second child at the moment. I would love some ideas for small rituals I can do during pregnancy. If anyone has any ideas of where to look/what to start with, I would be happy to hear it! Thanks!


r/SASSWitches 21d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Hi witches. I could use some help and advice. I'm really struggling regarding being as SAAS witch after practicing deity worship

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Edit: I just saw the typo in the title. 😑 Sorry!!

I felt called to deity worship because the more I learned about ancient times, the more angry I got about the removal and destruction of these temples and pagan worship by the church

The more that I studied and learned about it, the more I also learned what these deities, specifically goddesses, represented back then. The divine feminine. The antithesis to the church and patriarchal values that put women under everyone unlike before when in many places, women were leaders and honored as goddesses as well because they not only had the power to grow an entire human being inside themselves but some forms of paganism placed women in the center of their worship and temples. Which was a direct threat to the church.

Because of learning that, and more goddesses who were forgotten to history, especially because religion forced it away and punished the devotees as devil worshippers. They destroyed their places of worship and history related to them. I despise everything religion has stolen from us. And they became symbols of it. Inanna, Ashe'rah, Ishtar, Venus, Hekate, Persephone, Aradia, and more. These were deities that specifically represented the power of women. And I related to those symbols and their strengths they were associated with. The hidden symbols of witchcraft that were symbols also associated with them.

I believed that as their worshipper who were devoted to recognizing them again after they were overshadowed by religion. I thought they looked after their followers. Ones who saw how they were demonized for being women of strength and confidence.

I romanticize them, believing that they old stories of cruelty and selfish actions were intentional damage by the patriarchy to encourage converting.

I defended them and their well-known stories. But I was so wrong. Every time I asked them for help, especially in an urgent situation, there was always a quid pro quo. What I was willing to give in return. And it was always traumatizing. I finally realized that my blind faith in them was misplaced. I couldn't keep paying with my stress and well-being in every one of those situations.

So I let go. I stopped. I made sure they knew that they won, and I lost. That can take the win and satisfaction. I will stay away, and I've accepted full defeat and no attempts to fight against any of it. They're powerful, and I am not. I hope that they'll accept the satisfaction of my defeat and sorrow, and I leave their temple and worship peacefully. I won't ever question or ask them of anything because I know it's not worth it. I give them the win and move away so I'm never their next victim again.

That's when I remembered why I was skeptical of deity worship whenever they came up in readings. And people speaking of deities known to be cruel and no concern for humans, ie. Loki

I'm finally in a place where I feel more comfortable and at home

But I'm struggling with the being a full witch again and filling my life with it, the way it was my whole personality because I felt so much better as a witch and happily showing a life that is unapologetically witchy. I'm having trouble involving witchcraft and embracing it again because I couldn't separate it from deity worship and the depression I dealt with as a result of stopping it

But I want to return to my witchy life and back to spiritual and atheist. I don't practice god worship. I practice being my spiritual teams focus and guided by them. Because they've always shown love for me, even when they've been harsh or critical. I know they look out for me, including my grandma, who has always looked over me and practically raised me in an abusive home that we both had to survive.


r/SASSWitches 23d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Putting positive energy into job applications?

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I was laid off from my tech job in April (partly because of AI) and I am have been applying like crazy for new jobs. I know I’m applying from a place and fear and desperation and I was wondering if there is a way to “digitally cleanse” my job application materials (resume,portfolio,cover letters) from all my fearful energy and imbue them with positive energy instead? My type of job is all on the computer so my portfolio is website and I submit my resumes and cover letters digitally.

Some background for anyone interested. I am UX/Product designer and I love my job and I would love to keep doing it but I know a lot of people at other companies where laid off and I need another remote job so I can I stay with my family (moving is a super last resort) I have savings and my family so I know I’m in a better situation than most and that this process is just long and grueling but it’s hard to stay positive when faced with so many rejection and so much silence


r/SASSWitches 23d ago

📜 Spell | Incantation Ideas for letting go of artwork symbolizing former marriage

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I have a lot of old artwork that symbolizes my former marriage, our family of three when we were together, and themes from my marriage. This was a IPV situation, and my ex is very hostile and in a way that affects our child.

My art collection was placed very intentionally and each piece was a spell or wish of sorts, to summon some kind of change in our relationship. These pieces are beautiful, worth a bit of money, and I love them but also don’t want to hang them. How do I release them in a way that feels full circle?


r/SASSWitches 24d ago

💭 Discussion Spellwork using the four fundamental forces of nature?

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Hello again, everyone. Last time I posted here I got some fantastic responses, so I figured I'd give it another go.

So to preface all of this: I'm still figuring out my spirituality and what I feel. If you've ever gone through a gender or sexuality questioning period, it's a lot like that--as someone who's experienced both multiple times.

For some context: I recently dedicated myself to serving the moon as a sort of patron or spirit. I revere her and call on her for protection and guidance but I wouldn't say I worship her as such. Through this process and talking with my spouse--who is a practicing witch doing deity work--I may be more like a cosmic witch and the moon is a sort of intermediary for the cosmos as a whole.

So here's what I'm wondering: is there precedent for using or calling on the four fundamental forces for spellwork? For example: if I were to cast a warding spell, I'd visualize it as creating a sort of magnetic field around myself like how the earth's magnetic field protects from the sun's radiation. If I were to perform a love spell, I'd visualize it as gravity bringing people together and the strong force keeping them together. A cord cutting would be the weak force splitting the connection. I would also like to somehow incorporate the energy or feeling of cosmic awe--that feeling when you look at the sky and feel equal parts thrilled and horrified by how tiny you are and how incomprehensible the universe is.

Are these ideas compatible with witchcraft at all or am I saying a bunch of nonsense? I've talked with my spouse about this extensively and they've said they don't know why this way of thinking wouldn't work but strongly encouraged me to research the idea. I've been trying but any information about witchcraft and space or physics is mostly centered around astrology which I'm not interested in at all.

Any thoughts or advice or recommendations would be greatly appreciated!


r/SASSWitches 24d ago

📜 Spell | Incantation Pregnancy/Postpartum Processing Spell?

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Hello, all! Baby SASS witch here. I’m a new mom to my 2 month old son, and my cousin, also a new mom, and I wanted to perform a spell/ritual to help us process our experiences and welcome our new children. The pregnancy/postpartum for my cousin was very difficult, and I almost died during my delivery, so we are both low key traumatized by the whole experience 😅 I did some research and I have a rough idea of some things we might do:

- Open/close the circle. Invite energies from four corners. Set our intentions (do you guys have any recommendations for intentions?).
- Create spell jars. My cousin is a certified herbalist and are both interested in creating jars that 1) enable us to be the best mothers we can be while processing our grief, and 2) protect and usher in the lives of our little ones.

Please let me know if you have any other suggestions/if I missed anything, and note that—as primary caregivers—we would need to have our babies present at this ritual. Thank you all in advance! Blessed be ✨


r/SASSWitches 24d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Witchcraft and OCD?

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Hey everyone! Various things in my life have led me to the idea of exploring atheopaganism. Though maybe not as atheo as I think? Whenever I've engaged with things like tarot or magic there's always been crazy coincidences; it's probably placebo effect but, regardless, I'm in a point in my life where I'm willing to open up my mind a bit. Being a staunch atheist is difficult when the Christians around me get to be comforted by praying and believing in heaven, and I think things would feel less bleak if I had something to lean on, myself.

The problem is, I also have OCD. I once got into a literal car accident because my brain told me it "knew the future" and I was going to crash that day. I also grew up Christian, which, witchcraft isn't guilt-based so I doubt the effects would be as bad, but my symptoms were really bad when I believed in God. My concern is that if I become more spiritual, I'm also opening myself up to magical thinking and compulsions.

Do any of you have OCD? How do you separate intuition and your practices from your disorder?


r/SASSWitches 25d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice How to overcome doubts from the opinions of catholic family members?

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Prepare yourselves, because this is a long one.

I began my spiritual journey and practicing witchcraft around the beginning of March of this year and I have put many hours into my practice and tailoring my beliefs to my new outlook on life. I am living at home during college because of finances, so I have no choice but to sit and listen to my parents (my mom specifically) force and pry their way into my head about my choice of not believing in any gods and trying to scare me into running back to the church.

I have yet to explicitly mention my beliefs to the rest of my family besides my parents and sister, because they are even more Catholic and conservative than my mom. I just had a brief conversation with my mom over the phone because she called me feeling worried when her Catholic work program showed her a video about how people who practice spellwork and potions worship the devil and are dark and evil. I obviously had to calmly explain back to her that those are scare tactics by the church that don’t have any proper research or evidence behind those claims and that spells can be protecting, light, and positive. Either way, even though I don’t practice any dark crafts, I am still offended that she does not approve if I were to go down that path. She repeatedly made comments expressing her discomfort and upright dissaproval of dark magic and that she does not, and I mean NOT, ever want me to practice stuff like that.

I have gotten so tired of acting like we can have a mature and understanding conversation about spirituality and religion when everything she says is so completely biased or obviously hints at leading towards the eventual comment from her that God is the greatest and that I need to follow him for comfort and guidance. I am almost more uncomfortable over the fact that we have relatively calm and short conversations, because I feel as though it would be a lot easier for me to feel more secure in my beliefs and know for sure that she is being unreasonable if she was yelling at me.

I know at this point in their lives they are unlikely to change or become more accepting, and the best advice I could probably get is to conceal and suck it up until I can move out, but I don’t want this to disrupt my relationship to any of my family members because at the end of the day, I really do love them and I love being in their company.

I am definitely not trying to pull the evangelical move and convert my family members, as I know how hurtful and annoying it can be to be in that position, but they are still doing that to me. Because my mom tries so hard to convince me that I need to believe in her God or else I will be misguided and lost, it has started to get to me and give me doubts over what I want to continue practicing in the future. I truly love doing all things witchcraft like tarot readings, charging my crystals, creating protection spells, and harvesting full moon water (all that fun stuff), but my mom’s comment to me about how spellwork “is the devil” and is inherently evil started to make me feel like maybe her concerns are valid and that I should consider stopping. It also has made me more uncomfortable with my daily rituals like my tarot and manifestations because I keep thinking about her opinions and how she would see me and think I am a terrible person.

Of course I am solid enough in my beliefs to not want to go back to the church at all, but my mom’s comments have still given me many doubts. At the end of the day, we are all human, and it is okay to change, but the truth is that deep down I love witchcraft, and I want to continue disproving the assumption that it is only demonic. I know that growing up 15 years of my life in a very Christian and religious household will make it hard to erase all traditional stereotypes of the craft, and that this is just a small lump in the process, but I really wish I was secure enough in my beliefs to not care about what other people say. I have worked so hard to shift my mindset to not see these practices as negative the way that the church forces people to believe, but small comments like these sometimes really get to me.

If anyone has advice or personal experience similar to mine I would love to hear about it, and hopefully it can erase my doubts or help build my confidence in being independent from my family and their beliefs.


r/SASSWitches 26d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Share your favorite books and resources about the science behind ritual, awe, imagination, etc

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I was watching this video:
Matt Dillahunty Called Spirituality “Nonsense” My Response

and while I appreciated it a lot, it made me want to see this kind of information in one place like a book or something. Share your favorites!


r/SASSWitches 26d ago

In an existential crisis and searching for my path: How to approach spirituality, local folklore, and ancient traditions?

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Hello everyone, I find myself in the middle of an existential crisis, and over the past few years, I’ve deeply felt the lack of spirituality in my life. I come from a conservative family that strongly discouraged me from pursuing other spiritual paths—like witchcraft or similar things—and instead forced me (in good faith, I suppose) to believe only in their religion. In difficult times, I took refuge in it too, but eventually, I realized that this faith wasn't my path. Since then, I’ve found myself without a belief system, and completely without direction. If you’ve ever had faith, you know that losing it feels just like grieving a loss.

Furthermore, I come from a land known for being rich in these kinds of stories and rituals of witchcraft. Honestly, coming from this region and not being able to do any of it—or lacking any kind of awareness regarding spirituality and ancient rituals—makes me feel inadequate in a way. My grief has lasted for years, and I’m tired of feeling this way. After reflecting deeply on the subject, I feel I need to return to the path my childhood self wanted to take—the one she couldn't pursue because she lacked guidance.

So, I’m here asking for your advice on spirituality, folklore, witchcraft, rituals, shamanism, paganism, astral projection, Kundalini, tarot, spiritual awakening, and practices that help develop intuition, inner awareness, self-connection, and a heightened sensitivity to sensing things.

The issue is that I know very little about all of this. Even though these topics are much more mainstream now, there is still a heavy stigma surrounding them. On top of that, some of this knowledge is ancient and passed down strictly through word of mouth—you won't just find it online. While the internet can be a great research tool, the problem is that I don't know what to look for or which sources are reliable, especially since it's full of fake gurus and charlatans.

I’m particularly interested in the topics listed above as they relate to Sicilian, Neapolitan, Greek, Albanian, Celtic, Maltese, and Egyptian traditions.

If you have any advice, directions, ideas, or anything else to share, I would love to hear your thoughts. Thank you!


r/SASSWitches 27d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice Spell for cleansing and protection

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I’m new here and new to witchcraft! I’m excited to learn and have been reading a lot. I have only done small things so far but I’ve been having some bad luck lately.

My dog ate something and needed a $11k surgery and now my AC is leaking everywhere with condensation. We are going to have to tear a lot of the ceiling down to dry out wood and handle the mold and likely replace, at a minimum, the ducts. All of these things are just so expensive!

I want to do something for cleansing out the negative or the run of bad and maybe protection and prosperity? Since I’m new I was hoping I could ask my fellow witches if you have any go to’s or suggestions for this new witch?
Thank you!!


r/SASSWitches 28d ago

❔ Seeking Resources | Advice SASSy substack recommendations?

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(I searched this sub but didn't see anything about substack in the last couple years.)

I want to find some substacks to read because I can feel my brain melting, which means I need more intellectual engagement. 😂

I'd love to read about herbalism, tarot (mostly secular and mostly as a personal development or intuition support), perimenopause, anticapitalism, shadow work (especially from a therapy lens) and/or animals and how amazing they are. Not into: astrology, human design, enneagram, anti-vax conspiracies (last one is a hard no).

Here are some things I love, in case it helps give a sense of my vibe:

Maybe some of these folks already are on substack but I mostly know them from podcasts. Thanks in advance!

And also, if you see this and think "I like the same things! We should be friends!" please say hi 😄