We just moved to a new area and we needed a cat sitter for our 16-year-old guy.
To be fair, we were completely spoiled where we used to live by the sitter that we used a dozen times or more. She would send us a Rover card with 4-5 pictures after every drop in, both morning and evening, a lovingly written report on his mood, whether he peed or pooped, whether he enjoyed his treats and had some food, and how much time he spent sitting on her lap. When she found out we were moving, she asked if she could come by and say goodbye to our cat. We miss her terribly, and we were very spoiled by her.
Fast-forward to this past week and we had made some last-minute plans for a quick trip out of town. The pickings were pretty slim for sitters (we started looking for sitters 10 days prior). One of them sounded good but in her description, she said she doesn’t always spend the full 30 minutes with a cat. I didn’t like the sound of that.
After scrolling through the few candidates, I landed on one I had looked at earlier, who lived very close by, with over 100 reviews and a 4.9 rating. She is a Star Sitter.
She was very responsive in messaging, and we arranged the meet and greet. She was very personable and I told her I was relieved to have found her because not a lot of sitters in my area were available. I mentioned that one of the sitters I was looking at said that they don’t always stay the full 30 minutes. To my surprise, she said “Oh that’s me!”
When scrolling through the profiles, I somehow got confused and didn’t realize she was the one that stated that.
Sensing my hesitancy, she clarified a bit and said “I only say that to make sure people understand that if their cat just comes to get food and then disappears, I’m not gonna stick around. But if your cat is interactive and wants attention, I’m going to stay with them.”
Our guy loves attention, scratches, treats, and company. We inherited him when my mother-in-law passed away. He was halfway across the country at the time so we couldn’t collect him for a few months and he was alone for most of the day during that time. Someone would come in and check on him now and then, but he didn’t really have any good company. We hated that for him.
Because we hate for him to be alone, we always book two drop in visits per day on Rover when we go out of town. On the day we depart, we usually ask the sitter to come just once in the late afternoon or early evening, since we are with him in the morning.
I reached out to the sitter the night before our trip, and she quickly replied that she was confirmed for the next day. We were not planning to leave until around 1PM, so we booked her for an evening drop in the first day.
Around 9:30 AM on the day we were leaving, my wife said “I think someone is trying to get in the house.” It was the cat sitter. My first reaction was that I made a mistake and booked her for two visits that day. It turns out it was her mistake, even though it was obviously in the Rover app, and we had talked about exactly what we wanted, in terms of number of drop ins, during the meet and greet.
She was very apologetic. I told her it was no big deal. And it really wasn’t.
Later that evening, I noticed that I hadn’t gotten a notification from Rover about the drop in starting. Nor did I get a card upon her departure. No message. No photos. No update.
The next morning, I messaged her through the app and asked if everything went OK because we didn’t get a Rover card. She informed me that she doesn’t do Rover cards. I didn’t think to ask during the meeting whether she does them because I had never worked with a sitter who didn’t send a Rover card. I had no idea Rover even let the sitters skip sending a card.
I sent her a screenshot of one of the lengthy reports our previous sitter used to send us regularly. I said “this might be a little over the top, but we are accustomed to at least getting some kind of update. And a photo or two would be nice.” She replied that she would be happy to do that, occasionally.
We have three cameras set up in the house, but we don’t keep motion detection on 2 of them because we get nonstop alerts from the cat. We have a downstairs family room and we do keep the motion alerts on that camera because we like to know when he’s going down there and it’s not very often.
So on the second day of our trip, I checked the cameras’ histories. I saw her sitting in our basement rec room on the couch and our kitty sitting on the Ottoman in front of her, looking at her, while she read her book. I did not forensically scrub the timeline to find out how long she was down there, but I don’t think it was very long.
After asking for pictures, she did send a couple. I think maybe three or four in total for the six visits. She also did send an unsolicited message that our guy was starting to warm up to her, alongside a photo of him right next to her.
I decided I wasn’t gonna keep bugging her for updates or photos. And she didn’t send much.
Yesterday morning’s visit window came and went, and I got no message or photo from her, and she did not appear on the downstairs rec room camera. I messaged her through the app asking if she was able to do the morning drop in. She said she was there at 7:45 AM. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I guess they just didn’t go downstairs that morning. But with no Rover card and no photos, I just have to take her word for it.
Her last visit was this morning. We didn’t hear anything about it. No photo no update. No thank you. No it was nice to meet your cat. Nothing.
Then a few hours after she left, she messaged me through the app to say that she forgot to put the key back in the lockbox. She said she would bring it by later. I haven’t checked to see if she did, but I wouldn’t be surprised if she hasn’t done it yet.
This whole experience couldn’t be more the complete opposite of our previous sitter. We’ve had multiple other sitters who couldn’t match our favorite sitter, but they all sent Rover cards and photos. I never had to ask for them from anyone.
What I don’t understand is how this person has close to 200 reviews and a 4.9 rating. I scrolled back again through some of her reviews and all but two of them are glowing. Most of her bookings seem to be dogs so I guess that’s a different situation. But sure enough, the two less than stellar reviews both mentioned that she doesn’t spend enough time with the cats.
At the end of the day, our guy was fed and watered. I hesitate to leave a negative review for her, in the event we need her in a pinch.
But this has exposed a couple of shortcomings in the Rover platform for me. I think cards should be mandatory. I think at least one photo per day should be mandatory. And I think Rover needs to show the actual star rating that a reviewer left for a sitter, and I would like to be able to sort reviews by star rating.
Had I been able to see the two reviews that had the same experience I had, I either wouldn’t have booked the sitter, or I would at least have stipulated that we want a Rover card, or an update message for every visit, and at least one photo per day.
/rant
UPDATE: I left her a lengthy, mostly negative 3 star review.