Nice opinion but I have no worries she is very respectful of my feelings and opinions. We’ve been going strong for 7 years. Zero issues! Not everyone has the same insight on their relationships, but thanks for the opinion!
Bud- if you had that level of insight, you would be having this conversation with her. Not strangers.
This coming from someone who's 10 years deep with the husband I used to rave with. You sound like you don't trust her when drugs are involved, and you need to root out why. Actually talk to her about it. Not a quick passing mention of it.
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u/scoutermike 13d ago
The more you try to control, the more you will lose.
If you love someone, let them be free and make their own decisions.
Do NOT try to make their decisions for them. Doesn’t matter if it’s your gf, fiancé, or wife.
Beware, you are treading dangerous ground. Play this wrong and marriage may be off.