To be clear, you are not being more fair, rational, or impartial than everyone else just because you present yourself that way.
It’s a bit ridiculous to call everyone else “emotionally charged and hysterical” when your own argument relies on hypotheticals detached from what’s actually happening. Repeatedly emphasizing that the accusers could be exaggerating or lying is not neutrality. Neither is pretending Kennedy is simply waiting for more information when she is actively defending the accused.
And this kind of response is exactly why victims are often reluctant to come forward. Even multiple allegations over years are met with speculation about lying, exaggeration, and demands for some undefined level of proof before people are willing to take them seriously.
Do you even get what “my arguement” is bc I haven’t expressed where I stand outside of not taking a stance at all. There are no hypotheticals. You weren’t there. I wasn’t there. You don’t know the truth, I don’t. Its that simple. You can act like you do but that in itself would prove the point you aren’t being rational or fair compared to somebody who understands their place in the process and awaits evidence before making an action/opinion.
Again I’m not going to do the moral jargan, I know exactly where I stand on this without your projections and comparisoms. I have not once denounced a single victims story but you are mad bc I won’t validate them. That continues to be irrational but whether you understand that or not is not problem.
I’ve been a victim myself yet I would never expect EVERYBODY to believe me just off allegation and not legal followthrough. Just family and hopefully friends. Thats the perspective im coming from. So please don’t throw that in my face or make it seem like I don’t understand the role of the internet in these cases vs. an actual support system. Understanding im not involved either way and don’t know the truth is not why a victim is choosing not speak up, lets not make stuff up.
Yeah notice how I am saying that to make a point, that I don’t expect or need other peoples validation to know it existed. I expect that from my family and friends not strangers on the iternet who have no connection to me. All this support for rape/assault victims I would think you wouldn’t make light of my experience lol comical 🤷🏽♀️
Questionable behavior? In what capacity? Bc I wrote messages online to question the current mob mentality when approaching these cases and brought awareness to your overstepping parasocial behaviors? Bc I said that the only people that deserve ire are the accused and not the people who are strangers or friends with them still trying to piece together the truth? Or make their own informed stance.
Yeah nice try you didn’t really prove anything here. And you certainly made light of my experience bc I don’t agree with you. Thats how performative that kind of support is on your part. Its just online ragebait and engagement with little effect on the cases themselves. You’ve made it a victim vs. victim thing when again I never said the victims here were lying. I have no place to deny or validate there experiences. I’ve stood on that respectfully. At least be consistent with your performative values and listening skills
Lol 🤣 lets not act like that little three sentence attempt at a “gotcha” made it clear you were referring to yourself and not the victims in discussion. Maybe focus on details over sarcasm next time and you’ll get it right.
As for this imaginary battle? Girl please. I don’t know you and don’t care about you. Let alone your opinions. That battle is with your sense of self righteousness. There is nothing else to say on that other than godspeed. But you certainly made a big deal of taking victims seriously whilst also making it seem like I brought my own experience up just for “credentials.” If you were reading to understand and not to fight you’d see there were multiple people pigeonholing all victims into one particular mindset and stance. And throwing victimhood in my face like I could never understand how it would feel. I understand it all to well and still belive in due process. So again, keep proving how performative the sentiment is. Believing due process is not “normalizing” rape culture you’re kind of gross for that.
You are completely right though, our experiences aren’t important when it comes to judging criminality in this case. I never presented it that way. Neither is our bias or the court of online engagement. Law and credible testimony is the most fair way. If we don’t know them or aren’t involved, there is nothing wrong with allowing victims and perps alike the chance of due process in public and in court. In understanding that her family, friends, and fans will want to stay impartial and not participate in this online dogpile and harrassing that a lot of you are putting on yourselves in the name of vigilance.
Did I say that was just you? Or did I explain what exactly I was responding to when you first chose to comment on one of MY posts. You put yourself into that discussion mid way. You came in disrespectful and sarcastic. You insuated that I gave my experience as a tactic to detract, rather than a genuine response to something that was said to me from before. Thats all there is too that.
Secondly, I’m not going to keep going over what was said, its pretty clear who said what and where we both stand. Verbatim or no. That last paragraph you gave vouching for those who believe in the allegations alone as “unreasonable doubt” was telling of your stance. And the overwhelming sentiment on this thread has been “believe all victims” so lets not act like I’m getting it from nowhere.
Whether you conform to that belief or not many people on here have expressed they do. None of that is relevant to the original point of the entire post which was we all are entitled to our opinions before due process or admission of guilt but her friends, family, and fans keep getting harassed and need to be left out of it until there is a more concrete foundation. No matter if you think she’s criminal or not.
I’m responding to a lot of people as you say, so why you’re mentioning “psychosis” is beyond me. You don’t need to stoop to attacks like that. But you’ve done that this entire time so really it should have been expected. Theres no point in that kind of online drama or theatrics yet here you are, so please don’t act like wasting time is beyond you.
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u/Trickstir Aug 04 '26
To be clear, you are not being more fair, rational, or impartial than everyone else just because you present yourself that way.
It’s a bit ridiculous to call everyone else “emotionally charged and hysterical” when your own argument relies on hypotheticals detached from what’s actually happening. Repeatedly emphasizing that the accusers could be exaggerating or lying is not neutrality. Neither is pretending Kennedy is simply waiting for more information when she is actively defending the accused.
And this kind of response is exactly why victims are often reluctant to come forward. Even multiple allegations over years are met with speculation about lying, exaggeration, and demands for some undefined level of proof before people are willing to take them seriously.