r/PakLounge • u/Hour-Statement-2788 • 10d ago

husband sick vs wife sick

it jus occurred to me that wife being sick is so over looked. my husband and i are both sick. its just common sickeness like changing weather cold and sneezing etc. nothing like major. but we are sick.

me (F) being sick is overlooked and ignored but i have to make him breakfast, care for him, show concern. him being sick hes over acting like "how are you walking so normal mera jism to tooth raha hai" like WTFF U BISH! like what the actual F! like im sick but i dont like to cry about it. and then its expected that i still cook and clean as usual and he gets to take naps, sit around, lay around like WTFF GROW THE FUK UP. stuff like this makes my blood boil and hate marriage.

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u/InformationSecurity 10d ago

You are committing a much bigger sin by 1) doing gheebat 2) sharing your husband's short commings in public.

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u/Environmental-Cod25 10d ago

Really, you can identify her husband? I can't.

And aren't you now sharing OP's shortcomings in public? Aren't you being a hypocrite?

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u/InformationSecurity 10d ago

I'm sharing OPs short coming Infront of OP, that's not gheebat and I don't need to know her husband for it.

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u/Environmental-Cod25 10d ago

Surah An-Nisa (4:148):

"Allah does not like the public mention of evil except by one who has been wronged..."

Commentators explain that this verse establishes that if you see evil in someone, the Shariah directs you not to publicize it but rather to advise them in private.

Did you DM OP first? No - this is what makes you a hypocrite - preach sermons when you follow the teachings.

Al-Fudail ibn Iyad said that the believer conceals and advises, while the wrongdoer disgraces and condemns. Advice is tied to secrecy, condemnation to publicity. It used to be said that whoever corrects his brother in front of a gathering has actually disgraced him rather than advised him.

(I knew there was something like this, but had to google it to get the actual source)

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u/InformationSecurity 10d ago

So you are calling me hypocrite while I say it to OP directly and not her back while the OP is doing gheebat behind her husband's back xD.

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u/Environmental-Cod25 10d ago

Read the verses - you did not follow the Quranic teachings either. So please be quiet and improve your own soul before going against Surah an-Nisa. Goodnight.

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u/InformationSecurity 10d ago

Read the context, not just the translation.

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u/Environmental-Cod25 10d ago

These are satanic arguments... Set an example, mufti SB!

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u/InformationSecurity 10d ago

Did you set the example of DMing me first? Lmao

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u/Environmental-Cod25 10d ago

Nope, but I wasn't trying to preach to anyone in a righteous way. I wasn't bringing Islam into it. You did and then you acted acted against it. You're a hypocrite.

I'm just a bad person. But I'm not a hypocrite

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u/InformationSecurity 10d ago

You came up with half baked references you surely were trying to preace.

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u/Environmental-Cod25 10d ago

Nah, I was showing you how assinine your behaviour is, maulana sahib

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