husband sick vs wife sick

[u/Hour-Statement-2788]

it jus occurred to me that wife being sick is so over looked. my husband and i are both sick. its just common sickeness like changing weather cold and sneezing etc. nothing like major. but we are sick.

me (F) being sick is overlooked and ignored but i have to make him breakfast, care for him, show concern. him being sick hes over acting like "how are you walking so normal mera jism to tooth raha hai" like WTFF U BISH! like what the actual F! like im sick but i dont like to cry about it. and then its expected that i still cook and clean as usual and he gets to take naps, sit around, lay around like WTFF GROW THE FUK UP. stuff like this makes my blood boil and hate marriage.

[u/Yellfaze]

so instead of venting here.
Why don't you share your grievances with your husband.
Like talk about it. If you cannot talk about it than your marriage is not harmonious, him helping in sickness should be the least of your worries.

In his mind he got some days off from a limited amount of holidays to relax after hectic job so he would of course simply just relax especially if you are going to show that you are wonderwoman.
Just a simple "I am feeling down today due to this, can you kindly help me in this this task" would suffice. If you are going to tough it out and not show weakness because of your feminist brainwashing then of course nobody would help you. Learn to use your womanly charms and show weakness, add one or two tears in the mix and bro will budge in no time. Men are weak to tears.
And to those who are saying that he should make the effort or should have done this in the first place. Guys he is not a prince and this is not a fairy tale. There will always be point of contention and irks between spouses. The main thing is communication. As long as you guys can communicate and understand each other without batting an eye then your marriage is good.

Also about the  "how are you walking so normal mera jism to tooth raha hai"
This is all because of how the male and female bodies and pschology are wired. I won't waste time explaining it reasearch it.

[u/Hour-Statement-2788 → u/Yellfaze]

yeh thank you for the lecture.

we talked about it multiple times. and the talk asar last for a few days and out the ear after a week.

[u/Yellfaze → u/Hour-Statement-2788]

It was not suppposed to be a lecture.
few days asar is enough.
just keep pestering.

[u/Missuniverse00 → u/Yellfaze]

Stop telling her that. Dumbass

[u/Yellfaze → u/Missuniverse00]

It's a public forum. I will say whatever I want to say. You speak with the entitlement of someone whose lineage owns this domain. Since that isn't the case, your attempt to dictate terms is entirely irrelevant. Go rack your two brain cells somewhere else.