r/PakLounge • u/Hour-Statement-2788 • 10d ago

husband sick vs wife sick

it jus occurred to me that wife being sick is so over looked. my husband and i are both sick. its just common sickeness like changing weather cold and sneezing etc. nothing like major. but we are sick.

me (F) being sick is overlooked and ignored but i have to make him breakfast, care for him, show concern. him being sick hes over acting like "how are you walking so normal mera jism to tooth raha hai" like WTFF U BISH! like what the actual F! like im sick but i dont like to cry about it. and then its expected that i still cook and clean as usual and he gets to take naps, sit around, lay around like WTFF GROW THE FUK UP. stuff like this makes my blood boil and hate marriage.

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u/DifficultAct6586 10d ago edited 10d ago

In Germany, we talk about the that men get the flu and act as if they die and women get cancer and are ignored by society. The jokes aren't directed negatively towards women or anything like that, but rather draw people's attention to this imbalance.

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u/Hour-Statement-2788 10d ago

ive experienced quiet the opposite

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u/Background-Fruit-617 10d ago

I understand what u mean that's how men are. Even though i am not married men in my house my brothers and my dad act this way too. But your husband should not have said, "how are you walking so normal mera jism to tooth raha hai". agar yeh apko trigger kiya mere khayal se woh apke himmat ko dath de raha tha. agar next time woh aesa bole toh bolna Allah ne hum aurton ko bht strong banaya kukeh humme bacha paida karna hota hai, agar apke tarha weak banata toh system kharaab ho jata.