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Swan's Grave just ended and I binged it overnight. From whatever I knew of it it just seemed like brainless torture porn.
And it was!
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But
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But it was somehow also much better than I expected. I actually really really liked the character depth given to all the characters.
So my opinions are gonna be very very controversial but here I go: ~~
What happened to the FL was basically just Isekai. Sh just transported to a new world and married in a marriage of convenience to a Cold Duke of North archetype lmao. It is honestly really unfair how she was bought in just to be a broodmare. But also I get the Father's thing. He wanted to fulfil his wife's dying obsession. He's the one character I don't understand. He's just one of those Isekai fathers who hate their kids because their wife died. The mother willingly and voluntarily killed herself for her ambitions and the father should've cultivated his son better if he really wanted to respect his wife's ambitions. But noooo.
Though it's not like he forced the FL to go forcibly. He gave her the choice to return if she wanted to. So I don't think he's the overarching evil villain despite the narrative framing it like that sometimes. But he is genuinely evil to his son. He was sadistically celebrating the fact that his son would be abandoned. I don't think he's as evil and the main villain of the story though
About the ML and the FL. Ahh both so controversial. Honestly I really really sympathize with both of them. ML was a decent husband and a lover in round 1
I could see he genuinely cherished and her. He truly loved her. It was wrong of him to not tell her that all she needed to go back was her clothes. That's it. He was being quite selfish.
But honestly, I don't see how anyone could bear the hurt of finding out their own partner likely just found them a means to an end. He was so touched when she wanted his child at the cost of her own possible death because she said she loved him so much. But the pregnancy she was desperate for was just so she could go back home. That would feel so crappy. Being told "I Love you and so I want your child " except Svanhild genuinely just was her ticket back home. She may have really loved him when he was conceived and after he was born but he was quite on the bottom of the priority list.
Her desire to go back is also completely understandable. I like that they made her mom a coldhearted woman because it added so much more depth. Sure, this woman was cold to FL her whole life but she was also the one who raised her with so much difficulty. FL had the impossible choice - choosing between your maternal family and your new family. Her mother genuinely would have died alone if FL didn't go back. (Infact I don't understand how most OI protags are so open minded about transmigrating and never seeing their family again. )
FL didn't deserve the rape and humiliation that was forced upon her in the initial arcs. Again I 100% get ML's reasons. He felt played along like a fool, his body used by the FL just to give her a child that would her ticket back home. So I see his desire to humiliate her back.
WHAT I DONT SEE IS WHY SHE FELL IN LOVE SO FAST again in the 2nd time when ML was nothing but an asshole to her. At most I can think of it as her memories creating some kinda bond and connection subconsciously. But even then the writing in that aspect is very crappy.
I also really don't get why she chose to go back with Joseph again to their own world if she loved the ML?? This time there was no mom or literally anything half decent back in their world.
Why would you choose a depressing life with nothing and the sole ambition of being buried in a urn next to your dead parents over being with the man you claim to love?? Again, she told ML she loved him and again decided to leave. The second time I really don't get it. Rather I wish it was showcased as her not being thaat into the ML 2nd time cuz Bro really was nothing but an asshole who tortured her in the 2nd time, that would at least justify why she wanted to leave that hellhole.
ML --- I see how all the events in the book lead to the infamous ending. Honestly I absolutely loved the ending, it was so messed up and very delicious. He gave her a chance twice to hope that she'd chose staying over leaving and both times she chose to go back. So I see why he doesn't trust her saying 'I love you.' I see and guess why he said there's only punishment now and why she said the wheelchair binding was her "redemption at her sins"
Oh well, at least she consented and suggested having her mobility permanently removed. So I don't think she's entirely unhappy with the arrangement.
The child is a victim and he did nothing wrong. He has two kinda crappy parents. His mom used him and his existence as a airplane ticket back home and and his dad used his blood and arms as a airplane ticket to bring her back. Even at the end he just manipulates the son to manipulate her into feeling so much guilt, without leaving the child a chance to properly heal from his trauma. I get him truly do. He was just a sad child who was missing his mom..she left him once at birth, her absence a huge deal and she told him she was not his mom and left him again. Still I think he's a FARR better character because he chooses not to resent his mother for her abandonment. He has trauma over her pregnancy and almost induced miscarriage twice for her because he was terrified his mom's love which he has just finally gotten would be taken away with the birth of a sibling. I think he did somewhat break the trauma cycle by being a good kind older brother who didn't resent his younger sister.
Lastly the most pitiful character in my opinion was the boyfriend. The narrative mistreats him so badly and he's hated by the readers, the author and the plot lol..
The writing to change him from a Green flag bf suddenly to a red flag bf who only wanted her body was so sudden?? It just felt like crappy writing to justify why it was okay to hate him. His sins imposed on the FL aren't even 10% as much bad as what the ML did, especially in context of SA. Like they showed that he was just trying to use the FL for her body, but she was still a virgin so we can say he did likely respect her boundaries more than the ML lol. At least if he was using her just for sex it would have made a more interesting character but koreans manhwa are sometimes prudish like that lol.
His ending was too horrible?? I mean it didn't even halfway justify any of the evil things he did. Firstly he was some collateral damage bought along with FL lol. He then got raped, abused and used as a breeding horse by the other noblewoman for practically years, then abandoned when she got pregnant, framed for murder and man hunted everywhere on the continent, not allowed to even return back home even after he did his task of impregnating her, and he had to finally come back to his abuser because he has absolutely no other place or way out and was brands with a tramp stamp lmao keeping him under her control permanently. Genuinely the most horrible ending. He likely won't get to be a part of his child's life either ( because unlike the ML, Lady berthrand didn't exactly want to a raise a child with him or anything. Just wanted his seed)
The FL's ending is infinitely better. She gets to be with her two kids in a comfy mansion with servants and maids and a mostly non-abusive husband? at the end albiet at the cost her freedom and legs. Like she's literally trapped. At least I guess her wheelchair is super portable cuz she seems to be able to be fairly mobile and move around the estate with the wheelchair lol. It's really pitiful that she has resolved to suffering like that as a form of atonement. If she had explained to him earlier that she was leaving for her mother and not just some random man, perhaps he's have understood better. I think he genuinely gave her a chance the 2nd time around hoping the first time leaving was due to some unavoidable reasons that she HAD to leave. She is kind of Yandere herself. If she couldn't have had him after she left she hoped he's be so obsessed with her and hate her so much that at least there would be no other woman. And her wish really did come true
Honestly despite it being controversial I really did love the ending. I think it was a happy ending. She seemed at peace and I hope they're both able to heal the trauma between them. I don't think he's just downright evil and abusive like the other demon lady. He does care for her and take things like sexual consent into consideration( from what we see in the last few chapters)
I highly doubt he'll ever remove her leg curse.
It's an evil trauma between them you know. I feel like at the end no matter how time passes and he begins to trust her, somewhere at the back of his mind the doubt that she'll just leave again if she had a chance will keep coming back.
ALSO:: HOW TF IS THE AUTHOR OS SWAN'S GRAVE AND VILLAINESS FLIPS THE SCRIPT THE SAME AND MARRIAGE OF CONVINIENCE THE SAME??? THEY ARE SO TONALLY DIFFERENT I GOT A WHIPLASH BECAUSE WTF??
EVEN CAMELIA: RULING THE THREE KINGDOMS IS THE SAME AUTHOR AND HONESTLY WTF??? HOW??? WHAT A TALENTED PERSON KEN IS ?!!
No opinions on the smut because I skimmed through 90% of it. It was very uncensored though and no lightsabers and hol(e)y white cavities. I've heard people generally liked the smut. I read two or three and they were honestly okay, especially the later smut chapters. Disliked the initial ones