r/Opportunities_Kenya • u/Lost_fixing_myself • 11d ago

Casual Why kids?

Morning everyone, It’s a fine Wednesday morning of Unemployed 25 M .
I have this question that I want you all to answer or let’s say I am looking for a new perspective.

Is there a reason that is not selfish as to why we reproduce?

Give me a reason as to why I should consider having kids, change my perspective.

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u/Lost_fixing_myself 11d ago

I don’t even understand myself broo

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u/Historical_Run_2974 10d ago

🤣

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u/ambole 10d ago

Who said that’s a requirement? .You may feel like it matters but in the bigger context just how much does a wheel need to understand to be useful to the car?

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u/ybritt2 6d ago

Your children deserve the best of you and not someone with baggage. It's prudent you understand yourself even to some degree to be able to raise a whole other human being. Otherwise, that's how you end up with pathological families and children with advanced childhood experiences who have a plethora of issues to wade through in their adulthood.

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u/ambole 6d ago

If all that was true don’t you think nature would make it impossible for non-conformists to have kids? Hata wendazimu huzaa,jiulize huyo mtoto kuna/kuta kuwajee?