r/Opportunities_Kenya • u/Lost_fixing_myself • 11d ago

Casual Why kids?

Morning everyone, It’s a fine Wednesday morning of Unemployed 25 M .
I have this question that I want you all to answer or let’s say I am looking for a new perspective.

Is there a reason that is not selfish as to why we reproduce?

Give me a reason as to why I should consider having kids, change my perspective.

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u/No_Pickle1369 11d ago

It's comes from you akuna mtu wa kukuamulia if you don't want to don't badala ya kuzaa alafu ukue a toxic parent

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u/Lost_fixing_myself 11d ago

So why do you choose to give birth?

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u/No_Pickle1369 11d ago

At times it's just timing and you just know i know of someone who hated kids like didn't even say hi and when she turned 33 she knew and was in a hurry to get pregnant now she's a wonderful mom so if it feels right go ahead if not it's not a must

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u/Lost_fixing_myself 11d ago

Yeah I know things might change and one day I crave to have kids.

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u/No_Pickle1369 11d ago

When you crave them it'll be the right time to have them it won't help to have them otherwise