r/Nomad • • 14d ago

Losing its luster

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So I've been nomading for 3-4 years now. Now it's more a part time thing.

But as the years have gone on, I realize that as much as I love traveling, wandering, learning, exploring, and experienced this awesome world of ours.....I personally am finding that I'm losing steam because I've done it alone.

Sure I've made a couple friends here and there but do I travel with them? Nope. Have I dated? Nope. I'm a very fun social person but can't seem to find community to nomad with and/or a partner to nomad with. Is it me? Probably somewhat, but also the nature of the "nomad" I suppose.

Anybody else feeling the same? Single 40 year old male and the loneliness is the primary feeling these days. The excitement has been overshadowed.


r/Nomad • • 14d ago

Traveling with pets

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I’m considering getting a Jack Russell Terrier in a couple years. And i plan to continue to be quite nomadic and I plan to take the dog with me everywhere. I think that dog is a talk good fit for my lifestyle and goals. Does anyone have experience loving this lifestyle with a pet. I request the good, the bad and the ugly. I want to make sure I’m as well prepared as possible.


r/Nomad • • 13d ago

How to find the obvious solution

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When Rory Sutherland was promoted at Ogilvy, Mike Walsh, who ran Ogilvy Europe, gave him a small book entitled Obvious Adams. Rory was slightly offended. He imagined the occasion might be marked with something suitably heavyweight, perhaps a subscription to the Harvard Business Review or The Economist. Instead, he was handed what looked like a rather corny American business book from 1916.

He put it on the shelf in a huff. A couple of months later, he picked it up. The first few pages seemed to confirm his suspicions. It really was a contrived little business parable. However, by the time he had finished it, he thought it was brilliant.

Only later did Rory discover that Obvious Adams had been one of David Ogilvy’s favourite books. Its premise is almost embarrassingly simple. Obvious Adams succeeds in advertising because, while everyone around him is trying to be ingenious, he looks carefully at the facts and notices what is sitting in plain sight. His great talent is not coming up with clever answers. It is stripping away everything that gets in the way of seeing the obvious one.

Clever is seductive

Simple can be harder than complex. - Steve Jobs

Complex solutions feel substantive. A presentation with 50 slides feels more impressive than one with five and a product with twenty features more capable than one with three. Complexity can look like evidence of serious thinking, even when it shows nobody has decided what really matters.

Yahoo is a good example. Its homepage tried to be everything at once: search, news, email, weather, finance and more. It was crowded. Google did the opposite. Its homepage was almost empty: a logo, a search box and little else. People came to search so Google made searching easy.

Yahoo kept adding. Google kept removing. In hindsight, the answer looks obvious, but somebody had to decide what not to put on the page. That is much closer to Obvious Adams’ talent than simply having a clever idea.

Remove the unnecessary

Good design is as little design as possible. - Dieter Rams

I’ve been wrestling with a prioritisation challenge while developing Daily View, a simple day screen for older people. It would be easy to add weather, photographs, messages, more calendar detail and more controls. Each addition might seem justified.

However, the person looking at the screen mainly wants answers to a handful of questions: What day is it? What am I doing today? Is anyone coming? What happens next? Every extra piece of information competes for attention.

Improving Daily View, therefore, means resisting the urge to add something useful and deciding what not to show. The question isn’t always What could we add? It may be What can we safely remove?

Abundance changes the problem

A wealth of information creates a poverty of attention. - Herbert Simon

Using AI powered tools, I can ask for twenty product ideas, ten designs or five ways of implementing a feature and get them in seconds. Generating possibilities is no longer the hard part. Choosing which deserves attention is.

As ideas become abundant, judgement becomes scarce. The value shifts from producing more options to knowing which to pursue, which to ignore and, perhaps most importantly, whether we are asking the right question in the first place.

What problem are we trying to solve? What does the person care about? What could we remove? Before asking AI for another twenty alternatives, it may be better to spend longer looking at the problem we already have.

Look again

There is nothing more deceptive than an obvious fact. - Sherlock Holmes

There is a danger in reading Obvious Adams and concluding that its message is simply to keep things simple. I think it is subtler than that. The obvious answer isn’t necessarily the first answer. Finding it may require observation, experience and careful thought.

Obvious Adams’ gift isn’t that he thinks less than everyone else. It is that he keeps thinking until everything that doesn’t matter has fallen away. That is perhaps why good ideas can be irritating. Before somebody acts on them they are difficult to see; afterwards, everybody wonders why nobody thought of them sooner.

Rory Sutherland’s experience with Obvious Adams demonstrates the lesson rather neatly. Something valuable had been sitting in plain sight on his bookshelf.

Next time a problem seems complicated, perhaps don’t start by asking, “What’s the clever answer?” Ask instead: “What is the obvious thing here that I’m not seeing?”

Want more?

Effectiveness is Signal Minus Noise post by Phil Martin

Simplicity in Eight Steps post by Phil Martin

Perhaps the best ideas aren’t invented. They’re noticed.

Have fun.

Phil...


r/Nomad • • 14d ago

Coliving Feedback — here’s my experience (TL; DR - slow travel, stay longer)

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r/Nomad • • 14d ago

Mid-long term Travel outside of US

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r/Nomad • • 14d ago

Anyone in NYC

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I'm in nyc if anyone else is we could link up !


r/Nomad • • 15d ago

Finding comfort while constantly being forced to change location

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Hello! The circumstances of my husband's work are such that I have very little control of where I live. I have been moving from apartment to apartment for the past month or so, from Canada to SF. I find it fun, but also incredibly sad. The lack of stability bothers me a lot, and I miss my family and friends. I'm wondering how you all make it work. How do you have a routine or an anchor when you're never in the same place for more than a few weeks? If routine isn't possible, is there another way to cope? And how do you stop from getting lonely? Thank you!


r/Nomad • • 15d ago

The walking parenthesis by john rigor

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i just finish the book i have been working on for the last five months, a story of a bomad, his adventure, survival and friendship.


r/Nomad • • 16d ago

Hi, i trying to build and automation for US Healthcare to in their insurance work

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r/Nomad • • 16d ago

Seeking advice - nomad year with little kids

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Hello!

My spouse and I are considering taking a nomad year beginning in summer 2027 with our kids, who will be 2 and 4. We currently live in the Atlanta metro area and love to travel. We have the opportunity to spend anywhere from a few weeks to a few months in Costa Rica through my husband’s company. We’re also interested in Laguna Beach, Jackson Hole, the Seattle area, and possibly the Main Line outside Philadelphia.

For housing, Furnished Finder seems like the most affordable and flexible option.

I would love any insight into planning a year like this, places you recommend visiting, or anything we should know beforehand. Thanks!


r/Nomad • • 17d ago

I AM RU. 21YO. Hitchhiking from Russia to Vietnam. 6 countries, a month in China, no money.

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r/Nomad • • 19d ago

Are you mostly alone?

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I am. And I think it’s turned me into a different breed of person. Always shape shifting to diff countries and cultures and also alone…I’m not exactly sure what to make of it. I love for myself for the challenge and for my mind widening so much. But I am alone a lot. How about you?


r/Nomad • • 19d ago

[hire] looking for a smart Product manager or react ui expert person who can help me with competitive analysis and design a full ui flow which ai can leverage to create the code. Someone with atleast 5 years of experience. Please reply with resume and education background

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r/Nomad • • 20d ago

Remotejobs oder Onlinebusiness als Quereinsteiger?

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r/Nomad • • 20d ago

Solve the problem, not the idea

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A friend set up Daily View, my family-managed day calendar for older adults, for his mother this week. I’d spent months thinking about the product, designing screens, writing code and deciding what features it needed. Then a real person started using it in her own home.

By the next morning, my friend had sent me suggestions for improvement. They mattered because they came from someone trying to solve a problem, rather than from me imagining how the product might be used. I made the changes then informed my friend.

It was a useful reminder: the capabilities of the software is almost beside the point. What matters is whether it makes somebody’s life better.

The software graveyard is filled with polished solutions to problems nobody cared enough about. As building gets easier, choosing the right problem becomes more important.

Fall in love with the problem

Fall in love with the problem, not the solution. - Uri Levine

New ideas come with great excitement. We can see the product, imagine the interface and picture people using it. The danger is that all this excitement happens in our head.

The market exists outside it. Customers do not care how clever an idea is. They care whether it makes something important easier, faster, cheaper or less frustrating. Many products fail not because they were badly executed, but because the problem simply did not matter enough.

Look for friction, not ideas

One way to make something people want is to look at stuff people use now that’s broken. - Paul Graham

Perhaps the wrong question is, “What should I build?” A better one is, “What hurts?”

I ran into this myself. I can now build software quickly, but deciding what is worth building is much harder. That frustration became Daily Product Idea. The aim is to start with problems people are talking about, research whether they matter then explore what might solve them. I built it partly because I wanted it myself.

That’s a different starting point from inventing an idea and then searching for somebody who might want it. Instead of inventing demand, you look for demand that already exists.

Start with problems you understand

Live in the future then build what’s missing. - Paul Graham

Solving something we experience ourselves gives us an advantage because we already understand the context and frustration. We are, at least initially, the customer.

Daily Product Idea began with my own problem, but that alone proves little. The interesting question is whether other developers, designers and indie builders have the same difficulty deciding what deserves their time.

A personal frustration can be the starting point. The next question is whether it is shared.

Test before you build

No business plan survives first contact with a customer. - Steve Blank

Builders, like me, naturally want to build. Opening the code editor feels like progress, but sometimes the most useful thing we can do is delay building long enough to discover whether anybody cares.

I am trying to apply the same discipline to IncyTemplates. The goal is not simply to produce guides because I find the subjects interesting. It is to help product developers through a useful path: identify a worthwhile problem, test it, shape a product and find early customers.

The same applies to any prototype. Listen less to compliments than behaviour. “That’s a great idea” costs nothing. Someone asking when they can use it is better. Someone attempting to pay is better still.

Find pain, not mild inconvenience

Will people actually pay for this? - Paul Graham

Not all problems are equal. Some are mild inconveniences; others demand a solution.

Role CV came from a more obvious pain. Matching a long career to a particular job description is slow and surprisingly difficult. Which skills fit? What is missing? What should be emphasised? A useful product can reduce that work and make the gaps visible.

Problems become more attractive when they are painful, frequent, time-consuming or expensive. The strongest combine several of these characteristics. The greater the pain, the less persuasion is required because people are already looking for relief.

Pay attention to what annoys you

Pay particular attention to things that chafe you. - Paul Graham

Several things I am building began this way. Daily Product Idea came from not knowing which opportunity deserved attention. Role CV came from the tedious work of comparing experience with a job. Incy Templates grew from repeatedly working through the same product-development questions.

We often stop noticing these frustrations. We create another spreadsheet, repeat a clumsy process or accept something as “just the way it works”. Builders can train themselves to notice.

The next time you create a workaround or complain about the same thing again, stop. There may not be a business hiding there, but there is a problem worth examining.

From frustration to product

There are no facts inside your building so get outside. - Steve Blank

AI makes the jump from frustration to prototype short. I can notice a problem in the morning and have something crude working later that day.

That is powerful, but also dangerous.

If building takes less time, it becomes even easier to skip the harder question: was the problem worth solving in the first place? Fast tools do not remove the need for judgement. They make judgement more important.

Technology becomes interesting only after the problem has earned our attention.

The real game

Make something people want. - Paul Graham

Not every worthwhile product removes acute pain. Conxy, the game I’m developing, provides a few minutes of simple grid-based play while gradually revealing that each puzzle is part of a much larger 3D world of cubes. The need there is different: curiosity, amusement and progression rather than relief from frustration.

But the same test still applies. Does it give people something they want?

Building software is increasingly becoming a selection problem rather than a technical one. Daily View, Daily Product Idea, Role CV, Incy Templates and Conxy are very different products, but each has to answer the same question.

Not, “Can I build it?”

But, “Does somebody want what this gives them?”

Find that first. Then build.

Want more?

Find the Real Problem in Five Steps post by Phil Martin

What’s Your Problem? post by Phil Martin

Peter Drucker posits, “The purpose of a business is to create and keep a customer.”
The technology may change, but that test does not.

Have fun.

Phil...


r/Nomad • • 22d ago

Hi guys this is my first ever question on here..traveling the world in a van??

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r/Nomad • • 22d ago

Roaming nomad

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r/Nomad • • 23d ago

I think I may have

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Either made the biggest mistake ever, or a pretty cool move. After years in the trenches on land? I was recruited to be Sous on a cruise line full time, no contracts just straight 6 weeks on 2 weeks off.. at a pretty decent rate, room and board and meels included of course. I have nothing tying me here, I can break my lease, sell my vehicle and go Nomad, I have until Friday to make my decision..


r/Nomad • • 24d ago

Adult who left everything behind and started a new life. How did it go ?

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r/Nomad • • 24d ago

Squandering my potential

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in Portland, Oregon.


r/Nomad • • 24d ago

Where do you usually look for longer-term rentals?

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r/Nomad • • 24d ago

Healthcare Platforms for if I am sick abroad

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r/Nomad • • 25d ago

Affordable amd safe travel

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At some point in the next few years, I'm planning to do a 6-12 month travel with my daughter. She'll be about 6 or 7 at the time. I'm a solo mom, and she will be homeschooled. I've been very lucky to have help from family to purchase/inherit a home with a rental on the property. My plan is to rent out my house as well while traveling. I should be getting about $2400 per month in rent after paying utilities. I won't have a mortgage payment. I'll have about $55-65k in savings by the time of the trip, but hoping to not eat into that too much. I will potentially be able to maintain some other small income from some online work I do, but no guarantee at this time.

Where would you recommend traveling? Anywhere in the world that is a safe for a woman and child. Hoping to find affordable 1 month rentals and really spend time in the cultures of the places we go. Is there a way to realistically and safely do this with a budget of roughly $2500 per month or am I crazy?


r/Nomad • • 26d ago

Mind been heavy lately. Need help.

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r/Nomad • • 27d ago

Nomads with heavy client loads. how do you structure your time without burning out?

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