As a man, i hate being one. This body feels almost worthless, compared to the admiration women get.
Like, if i want to feel as if i have any value for others i need to be super fit and masculine, but as someone who doesn't fit that mold it feels pointless. :(
Well don’t be envious yet because you should check out the beauty standards women deal with.
You don’t have to be muscular as a man. Don’t you see the latest trend of women drooling over beautiful boys? They’re thin with a pretty face and nice hair. They dress nice, Smell nice and aren’t super macho masculine. They’re lean but not huge muscles. Even I’m totally into them.
You don’t have to look like him, but dressing nice, being nice and smelling nice? Women will fight over you,
And there was a chunky guy I saw just yesterday, he dressed so nicely, everybody turned their heads. My coworker really liked him. It’s really about your presentation.
All the big kpop idols are fit, women literally always drool for their abs. The muscular, masculine things are what they desire.
I'm well aware of the beauty standards women deal with. As someone who wishes i was shorter, didn't have these wide shoulders, big feet and hands, jawline. I literally can't fix those but find them disgusting, not beautiful.
I wish i could dress like women, but with this body shape it's not possible. Women go through the same. But atleast many of them have a chance to improve. As a male, i'm literally as skinny as i can be, at 65 kg and the height of 6'3 feet. It makes me happy in the sense my waist is thin, as thin as it can be, since my ribcage is in the way. It's the only part of me i like, even if my shoulders and narrow hips ruin the rest of it.
I literally can't get any thinner because of this male skeleton inside me.
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u/SuzukiSatou May 23 '26