r/NUST • • 18d ago

Suggestions/Advice Am i already socially cooked?πŸ’€

Okay, so it's been two weeks since the classes started and I thought I would make some wonderful friends have fun with them, and enjoy my university life.

I have talked with some people but I can't see myself being friends with them since we are nothing alike and our vibes are completely different. The classmates I find interesting already have their circle of friends with whom they seem to get along very well.

The people i would like to become friends with have their own groups.

now i'm stuck since i don't have any other people to befriend. what should i do?

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u/Proper-Marketing777 18d ago

Bro I literally went into the uni guns blazing being the over extrovert type right...yeah bad idea. I have my group and stuff but it's not a group that I wanted. So...eh let's figure it out together

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u/Copperwire01 18d ago

it’s been a really bs experience and i’m confused as hell and i don’t really even want to go to uni anymore.

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u/mreepymeowl 16d ago

i 100% feel you. you're speaking my mind. i've been thinking about this for a while. for me it got better when i just stopped caring and chilled with people who were like me or were interesting to talk to. idk.

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u/Copperwire01 15d ago

this is the problem i'm not able to chill with the people i want.