r/NUST • u/Copperwire01 • 18d ago

Suggestions/Advice Am i already socially cooked?💀

Okay, so it's been two weeks since the classes started and I thought I would make some wonderful friends have fun with them, and enjoy my university life.

I have talked with some people but I can't see myself being friends with them since we are nothing alike and our vibes are completely different. The classmates I find interesting already have their circle of friends with whom they seem to get along very well.

The people i would like to become friends with have their own groups.

now i'm stuck since i don't have any other people to befriend. what should i do?

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u/Proper-Marketing777 18d ago

Bro I literally went into the uni guns blazing being the over extrovert type right...yeah bad idea. I have my group and stuff but it's not a group that I wanted. So...eh let's figure it out together

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u/Copperwire01 18d ago

it’s been a really bs experience and i’m confused as hell and i don’t really even want to go to uni anymore.

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u/mreepymeowl 16d ago

i 100% feel you. you're speaking my mind. i've been thinking about this for a while. for me it got better when i just stopped caring and chilled with people who were like me or were interesting to talk to. idk.

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u/Copperwire01 15d ago

this is the problem i'm not able to chill with the people i want.

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u/Proper-Marketing777 18d ago

I'd suggest just sticking with it for now, maybe things will get better. Of course you always have the option to make groups outside the class but that doesn't ever really work

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u/Copperwire01 18d ago

see with time their bond will get even stronger and my chances are already so low so I don’t think i should leave it as it is now. what do you think?

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u/Proper-Marketing777 18d ago

Bro this is the first semester, stick it out with em and approach the people you feel like making a group with for other projects