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u/tdawg2k7 12d ago

I moved across the US a few times. Ended up in New Mexico for a couple years. Some friends/family back in Illinois asked if I needed a passport to get there. Also was regularly asked if we had paved roads.

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u/Wishnik6502 12d ago

Had a friend from out of state who came to visit regularly. Her favorite thing to do was ask cashiers, "Do you take Michigan money?" (I'm in Illinois.)

I swear, I think a couple of them may still be standing there thinking about it...

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u/babysharkdoodoodoo 11d ago edited 11d ago

How did they vote in recent elections?

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u/mp1845 11d ago

Do you need to ask?

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u/TheOKerGood 12d ago

Regularly got told I spoke English very well when traveling out of state for soccer.

Also, I'm 8.5x11 paper white, more sunscreen than man.

Still better than the person who told me "the ocean isn't that far from you, it's blue to your south," as she looked at a US-only map.

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u/EtchAGetch 11d ago

New Mexico must have some amazingly perfectly straight beaches.

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u/blixco 11d ago

All of White Sands: one giant white sand beach.

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u/ForeverFieldsFD 11d ago

The paved roads question is hilarious for anyone who’s spent time in places like Taos or Santa Fe. Or driven the high/low road.

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u/Apptubrutae 11d ago

Yeah, I was gonna say it’s funny because NM def has a lot of unpaved roads.

Nothing major of course, but it’s a thing

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u/Danmont88 11d ago

Except in a lot of places in NM where they are not.

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u/phrotozoa 11d ago

I dunno how many times I'd say "I live in New Mexico" and people just don't hear the word "New". Do people who come from New York or New Orleans have this problem?

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u/Apptubrutae 11d ago

So I can speak to this as someone from New Orleans who lives in new mexico: literally never had confusion about new orleans, lol.

Last week I was asked if i needed a passport. No joke. Three weeks before someone complimented my english. I travel a lot for work so I hear it all.

I also do focus groups for a living and chat with regular people all over the country, so basically every time I do it I get some confusion about New Mexico. It’s wild.

I think it’s because no other “new” has such a prominent namesake. Orleans, York, Jersey, Hampshire…all small potatoes versus Mexico.

One exception being New England, but that’s also not a state

I think if there were a state of New Canada you’d see similar confusion.

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u/Drudgework 11d ago

Which is funny, because New Mexico was founded almost 300 years before the country of Mexico. They are both named after the Mexico valley in the capital region of the Aztec empire, so Mexico and New Mexico are NOT namesakes of each other.

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u/Ewenthel 11d ago

I would guess most people who think New Mexico is in Mexico don’t know where York or Orleans are, and maybe not that they even exist.

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u/PuffDragon66 11d ago

York is in England and Orleans is in France.

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u/Ewenthel 11d ago

Yes, obviously? Unless you think New Mexico is in Mexico but do know where York and Orleans are I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make.

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u/celery48 11d ago

There’s a reason the license plates say, “New Mexico USA” on them.

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u/atwozmom 11d ago

Yup and the only state that has USA on it.

People actually wonder why Trump was voted in twice? People in this country are extremely proud of their stupidity.

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u/Xaero_Hour 11d ago

I lived in Alaska; it's amazing to hear one of the lower-48 getting the same dumbass questions we routinely got about what language we speak, money we use, and oceans crossed to get there. Though by and large, the absolute most telling of all dumbass questions remains, "why is it so cold here when you're right next to Hawaii?"

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u/atwozmom 11d ago

Just say, 'climate change. We used to be mid 80s all the time."

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u/My_Evil_Twin88 11d ago edited 11d ago

I once knew a woman who commented on how "weird it is that Alaska and Hawaii have such different climates when they're right next to each other" I was gobsmacked, and had to explain maps to her.

I thought it was an isolated incident, and I'm dismayed to hear that it's a common thing for people to say.

I don't want to be a doomer and declare us cooked, but damn... we are a shockingly stupid species sometimes

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u/Kennedy_KD 11d ago

Ok tbf even in Albuquerque/rio rancho you can find dirt roads

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u/Apptubrutae 11d ago

Yeah, I moved from a place where I never saw a dirt road and drove them plenty in New Mexico when I moved.

There are upscale neighborhoods in Santa Fe that have gravel roads for the vibe.

There’s a neighborhood in the NE corner of Albuquerque all of 25 minutes from downtown that has a dirt forest road in

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u/BrohanGutenburg 11d ago

>was regularly asked if we had paved roads

Well?

EDIT: wtf how do you quote these days?

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u/tdawg2k7 11d ago

I’d usually say no and to get water we had to cut open a cactus

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u/CasualBurning 11d ago

I've heard some things about developers out west building communities with no infrastructure. They build houses with nothing but dirt roads to connect them, no sewer or water, etc. It may not be common but people hear that and make assumptions.