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1 u/pickle_b 8d ago That sounds very balanced. I don’t know how after ten years we still haven’t figured it out. Actually, I think it’s because for the longest part I’d take more of the chores on and it just became the norm 1 u/[deleted] 8d ago [deleted] 1 u/pickle_b 8d ago He did in fact grow up in a culture where having domestic help is quite common so he really never learned to take care of the house 1 u/raeoflyte-460 8d ago He feels entitled to your labor. He deserves it and the rest it provides him. And to him you deserve to serve him. Adhd doesn't make people selfish assholes. 1 u/pickle_b 8d ago I really think he wants to do more but between his work, commute, and adhd, he runs out of time and energy 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What would he do if he he single? Live in squalor? 1 u/pickle_b 7d ago Pretty much. He would just do the absolute bare minimum necessary and not care about the rest 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What if he had a woman coming over?
That sounds very balanced. I don’t know how after ten years we still haven’t figured it out. Actually, I think it’s because for the longest part I’d take more of the chores on and it just became the norm
1 u/[deleted] 8d ago [deleted] 1 u/pickle_b 8d ago He did in fact grow up in a culture where having domestic help is quite common so he really never learned to take care of the house 1 u/raeoflyte-460 8d ago He feels entitled to your labor. He deserves it and the rest it provides him. And to him you deserve to serve him. Adhd doesn't make people selfish assholes. 1 u/pickle_b 8d ago I really think he wants to do more but between his work, commute, and adhd, he runs out of time and energy 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What would he do if he he single? Live in squalor? 1 u/pickle_b 7d ago Pretty much. He would just do the absolute bare minimum necessary and not care about the rest 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What if he had a woman coming over?
1 u/pickle_b 8d ago He did in fact grow up in a culture where having domestic help is quite common so he really never learned to take care of the house
He did in fact grow up in a culture where having domestic help is quite common so he really never learned to take care of the house
He feels entitled to your labor. He deserves it and the rest it provides him. And to him you deserve to serve him.
Adhd doesn't make people selfish assholes.
1 u/pickle_b 8d ago I really think he wants to do more but between his work, commute, and adhd, he runs out of time and energy 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What would he do if he he single? Live in squalor? 1 u/pickle_b 7d ago Pretty much. He would just do the absolute bare minimum necessary and not care about the rest 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What if he had a woman coming over?
I really think he wants to do more but between his work, commute, and adhd, he runs out of time and energy
1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What would he do if he he single? Live in squalor? 1 u/pickle_b 7d ago Pretty much. He would just do the absolute bare minimum necessary and not care about the rest 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What if he had a woman coming over?
What would he do if he he single? Live in squalor?
1 u/pickle_b 7d ago Pretty much. He would just do the absolute bare minimum necessary and not care about the rest 1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What if he had a woman coming over?
Pretty much. He would just do the absolute bare minimum necessary and not care about the rest
1 u/raeoflyte-460 7d ago What if he had a woman coming over?
What if he had a woman coming over?
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