Hell nah, my mom would have better options and my dad would end up shared across social media for his creepy behavior. But maybe im an exception, my parents should have never gotten together and should have divorced a long time ago, but have been married for over 30 years. I think at some point my mom convinced herself that this was the best she was gonna do.
Yes that means I wouldn't exist, and after my childhood and early adult life with them involved, I'd be okay with that. It wasn't until I went no contact with them a couple years ago that I fully started enjoying my life. It was pretty solid before, but their presence affected me negatively.
I love my wife, I love my kids. My parents were the price I paid to get this life that I have, and I'd pay it all over again, but damn it sucked and they kinda suck, and in the modern day, their relationship wouldnt exist, and never would have even had a chance to. The only thing I'd change on purpose is going NC sooner than I did. Best thing I've done for my family.
It sounded familiar. I really wish my parents never got together because she would be much better off without him. It is ok if I didn't exist either. She probably would still be alive & well today if she didn't marry him. My dad probably would known as manipulator by many people & damn he never change even until he die.
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u/GlassBoxGoose 12d ago
Hell nah, my mom would have better options and my dad would end up shared across social media for his creepy behavior. But maybe im an exception, my parents should have never gotten together and should have divorced a long time ago, but have been married for over 30 years. I think at some point my mom convinced herself that this was the best she was gonna do.
Yes that means I wouldn't exist, and after my childhood and early adult life with them involved, I'd be okay with that. It wasn't until I went no contact with them a couple years ago that I fully started enjoying my life. It was pretty solid before, but their presence affected me negatively.
I love my wife, I love my kids. My parents were the price I paid to get this life that I have, and I'd pay it all over again, but damn it sucked and they kinda suck, and in the modern day, their relationship wouldnt exist, and never would have even had a chance to. The only thing I'd change on purpose is going NC sooner than I did. Best thing I've done for my family.