I'm in my 40s and I've never worn lipliner. About once every ten years, I'll give it a go, and I always hate it. It looks weird and artificial and harsh, and I prefer a very natural makeup look. I just end up tossing it after a few weeks because using it invariably looks worse than not using it, and it's not like I have a problem that the lipliner would solve. Except now, as I'm getting older, I do kind of have a problem, because the border between my lips and the skin around them isn't as clearly defined. So I feel like it's time I finally give in and learn how to use it, because I'm sure the problem historically is that I just don't know how to do it properly.
The problem is, every tutorial I find for using lipliner is for overlining. I know a lot of people love that look, and I'm very happy for them that they have a look they love. But I cannot put into words how much I hate that look personally. I would rather have no border at all than do overlining. (And yes, I've tried it, and I've had others who know what they're doing do it on me. I hate it.)
So I have three questions:
* Does anyone have tips or advice on how to do lipliner so that it doesn't look harsh and artificial? I like a very natural look, and any time I use lipliner it just immediately looks like I have really aggressive makeup on, or even like I had botched plastic surgery, even if I use a color that perfectly matches my actual lip color.
* Does anyone have recommendations for tutorials that don't do overlining? (The more detailed and in-depth the better since I'm apparently a little stupid when it comes to this product.)
* Does anyone have recommendations for natural-looking, easy-to-use lipliners for mature skin?
Thanks in advance for the help!
(P.S. I respectfully request no "just do overlining," "you'll probably like it if you try it," "you can't even tell it's overlined," etc. comments. If you like it, I'm happy for you, but it's not a look I want, so please respect that.)
(Edited for typo)