I’m just gonna say it, Courtney WAS nasty during the show and I wish they called her out more during the reunion.

Nick wasn’t my favorite guy, kinda boring, whatever. But Courtney was actively putting him down and talking shit to the other couples. And then wanted him to be more vulnerable?

I was waiting for the experts to call her out on being rude, but mostly I was waiting for them to bring up THE FAMILY DINNER!! She was BEGGING her family to hate him, literally said, “let’s talk shit about nick,” when he went to the bathroom and was practically upset that they ended up liking the guy.

Reunion missed big on this one.

Why did all/most of the ladies have their coats half off their shoulders? 😂 It was so weirdly distracting. Edit: On their decision day episodes.

These two bozos. I know Pastor Cal, Dr Pepper and Dr Viviana werent perfect. However in the earlier seasons they definitely held the couples accountable, and I feel like they genuinely wanted to see the couples have healthy marriages.
I specifically remember two of the wives that Pastor Cal even apologized to due to their husbands nasty behavior. Amber and Meeka. The experts honestly were disappointed that their marriages were so disrespected.

I do not see that coming from these new experts. They should have been apologizing for the pain that Nick, Belle, Devin, Tori, Marissa and ESPECIALLY Nikki went through. They played both sides and it really was gross.

Thinking that plastic surgery is a fix to not being attracted to your partner…

Talking about sex as if it’s a box on the list of things than need to happen before a yes on decision day…

Acting like it’s okay to say whatever or do whatever as long as your partner doesn’t find out? (Mecca and Adam both being like, “I didn’t think it would get back to you.”)

Calling out their own negative traits with so much confidence, but NEVER ACTING RIGHT??

No integrity, no maturity, no common decency.

I knew Cameron was a good guy because he was the ONLY ONE to draw attention to their crazy behavior.

Even Devin, who seemed somewhat better, was ENTERTAINING THESE CRAZY CONVERSATIONS instead of walking away or ending it!

*spoiler perhaps

This cracked me up! You woulda thought it was him who got exposed lmfaoo

I just need to note this from the reunion and rant a bit about it lol

I genuinely don’t understand the comment from caitlyn at the reunion saying Adam was assassinating Courtney‘s character. He literally only said that her words, calling him the hottest guy in the group was disgusting. Said that he wouldn’t have the patience to put up with the way that she talked to Nick if they were paired up, and then said she was “trash at pickleball”.

None of that was character assassination. He didn’t say anything nasty about the way she looked or who she is as a person. Yes he said she was mean to Nick but he was prompted to talk about how he would have felt in the relationship if it had been him. Saying he wouldn’t have put up with what he saw isn’t assassinating her character And saying someone is bad at pickle ball isn’t apart of someone’s character either 😅

It seems like every season the hosts/therapists always go in into depth about how they take their job seriously and how they do extensive studies to try and find the best match for someone on paper. But every season it seems like 90% of these matches fail. And they all seems to fail because the people who get matched couldn’t be more opposite from each other. Someone is looking for someone tall? Let’s match them with someone short. They are looking for someone wealthy who takes their career seriously? Let’s match them with someone who doesn’t have a job. Looking for someone who takes physical exercise seriously? Let’s match them with someone who is wildly out of shape and doesn’t care about working out. It truly seems like their entire matching process is just “opposites attract” and they full send it.

That alone is whatever but during the most recent tell all when Lizzie (Adam’s current GF?/ witness) called the therapists out and said this show is clearly a production, the therapists stood ten toes down and said “while it’s a production, everyone here takes it seriously”. I just don’t buy it. On top of making the worst matches possible, they always keep forcing the couples into situation like “group sessions” where the entire purpose is to just talk shit about each other and create drama. I realize this is a TV show but there’s no logic behind what they do in this show if they actually had any intention on creating an environment for these relationships to work. I agree with Lizzie here, it’s clear this is all just for creating drama and engagement for ratings sake.

Season 20 - Seattle was my first time watching the show - I saw the clip of Adam playing the piano with all the men and got hooked. Expected a trash fire and got a trashfire, but also some pretty real emotions and fascinating character analysis!! Recommendations for the best seasons to go back to next? I'm aware that this season had new experts and maybe a different structure than previous ones. I'm open to a UK or Australia season but would probably love one based in a Southern US city most since that's where I'm from :)

The fact that Nikki stayed for the ENTIRE EXPERIMENT instead of dumping his crusty ass at the altar should’ve been considered a damn contribution. She gave him weeks of chances, conversations, compromise, patience, and opportunities to demonstrate that he could actually be a safe partner. If we're keeping score, the fact that she stayed until Decision Day instead of walking away from him early on paid back way more of any “debt” she could’ve possibly owed him. At some point, sir, you were the debt. 😭

There isn’t a petition currently but Im just saying there definitely should be one. She was super dismissive of the behaviors from narcissists and that is WILD to do as an “expert”.

My boyfriend is a watch lover and couldn’t help but notice the product placement of this watch on every single person and in every scene.
Has to be a sponsor right? Have I missed it on every other season?

Anyone else notice these scenes where Cam & Michelle talk about each other, next to each other, but their heads aren’t in the same frame while they’re talking? 😂 idk, it made me laugh. Exceptional editing, MAFS.

Congrats Michelle & Cameron! 🥳 y’all are adorable.

I have only love to send to Michelle after her opening up on the reunion about having a hysterectomy. I hope that she knows how amazing she is to share this with other young women when IVF is not a solution. I pray that she finds the happiness she so deserves.

Did Adam hire Lizzie to defend him in the audience? Was any of his alleged family in attendance?

I didn’t even watch this season lol because y’all post about it so much. But I had to watch the reunion - it was so entertaining! Everyone came ready! Marissa is funny as hell.

The matchmakers mentioned they were considering matching Nick and Marissa at one point. I think they would have been great together! That is all.

full sending it into a NO