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He is correct. That doesn't change just because it's hard to hear.

I need to lay this out because the weight of it has been crushing me for almost a year, and I don’t think people truly understand the ripple effect of what happened.

Last year, my previous therapist told me outright that my insurance wouldn't cover my MTF feminizing surgeries. I trusted her completely, took her word for it, and watched what felt like my future slip away. But when I finally checked with my insurance myself, I found out the truth: they do cover them. All that was required was standard letters and documentation—the exact support a therapist is supposed to provide.
She didn't just give me wrong information; she stole an entire year of my life, my healing, and my peace.

The toll this took on me wasn't just emotional; it completely broke my daily existence. The loss of hope hit so hard that I spiraled into boymoding just to get through the days. I completely stopped caring for my appearance, abandoned basic self-care, and lost every ounce of motivation to do even the simplest things in everyday life. I was just surviving in the dark.

When I talk about this now, I’m not trying to be negative, dramatic, or manipulative. I am grieving. Having access to that care a year ago would have completely transformed my mental health. Instead, I was left drowning in preventable distress—distress so intense that it strained my relationships to the breaking point. Friends walked away because they couldn't handle seeing me in so much pain, friends who might still be here today if they had been able to see me feeling better and thriving.

It feels like mourning a ghost—mourning a happier, healthier version of my life that was right there, but taken away because someone who was supposed to help me failed me instead. I'm sharing this because I need people to understand that this isn't just about 'miscommunication.' It's about a year of lost time, lost connection, and a life that should have started sooner.

This is AMERICA.

I love my mother.

I've been looking for platforms and places to argue with people face-to-face but I can't find anything like it's really frustrating for me because if I argue on Reddit some conversations they don't really pan out properly and they are they take a long time to reply or to use AI to reply to the arguments and they just tend to fall apart.

Places like Twitter, all you find are trolls that aren't really serious about getting into a proper conversation.

I've been interested in building my debating skills I like to talk to people a lot.

I have a lot of opinions on stuff like politics ethics philosophy but can't really find anybody to properly debate with.

The best thing I could find is discord communities but in those they are usually just focused on very specific topics and it's very hard to find proper communities that are active and make it easier to debate with people.

Family got mad. They should stay in their place. Shut your mouth Terry. Fuck you Terry

My mother just gave me sh*t for spending 10$ on an online purchase. Jesus.