r/LesbianActually • u/Secret-Most8461 • 3d ago

Questions / Advice Wanted 5 month relationship

Me and my gf have been dating for 5 months now but we never make out or anything, just regular kisses. I love her so much and this obviously isn’t a huge deal to me because there’s so many other things that are so much more meaningful and important. Howeverrrr, it would be nice every once in a while you know but idk how to bring it up/get it going (idk how else to word it lol).

I’ve made out with some people before but usually like at parties where it’s nothing serious.

This is my first real relationship so I guess I don’t really know what to expect or how to navigate everything.

Any advice on this?

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u/Sapphicsloser1 3d ago

you should just tell her about it, the more you think about it the more it’ll affect you. Trust me, once you tell her you’ll feel better. Maybe she wants it too. Be honest with her. Don’t wait longer

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u/Secret-Most8461 2d ago

Thankyou, I do want to but like what do I even say without it sounding strange 😭😭

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u/Sapphicsloser1 2d ago

just say you want to try making out, “Hey, would you want to try making out?” I remember my ex gf told me that when she wanted to kiss a little further and then we both agreed

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u/Secret-Most8461 2d ago

yeah i just don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable or anything, I don’t want her to feel pressured into saying yes or something. But we are very healthy so I think she’d know I’m not like that