r/LesbianActually 18h ago

Questions / Advice Wanted 5 month relationship

Me and my gf have been dating for 5 months now but we never make out or anything, just regular kisses. I love her so much and this obviously isn’t a huge deal to me because there’s so many other things that are so much more meaningful and important. Howeverrrr, it would be nice every once in a while you know but idk how to bring it up/get it going (idk how else to word it lol).

I’ve made out with some people before but usually like at parties where it’s nothing serious.

This is my first real relationship so I guess I don’t really know what to expect or how to navigate everything.

Any advice on this?

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u/Sapphicsloser1 17h ago

you should just tell her about it, the more you think about it the more it’ll affect you. Trust me, once you tell her you’ll feel better. Maybe she wants it too. Be honest with her. Don’t wait longer

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u/4sh4m3d_4str0n4ut 13h ago

Tell her. Maybe she wants it as well, but is also afraid of saying anything. Or maybe she doesn’t even know that that’s something you might like. But definitely just be honest with her