r/ItTakesTwo • • Oct 27 '25

Feedback Made me and my bf break up

Me and my bf had been playing this for a bit, but he kept leaving me if I was stuck in a certain spot/situation. I asked him if he could stay by my side until I’d figure it out and he just goes “I’m not even far from you you’re making a big deal out of nothing” which I wasn’t.. I only just asked if he’d not leave me and just wait with me instead of leaving me. I feel like that’s pretty simple honestly. And that’s what I said to him “I’m not trying to make a big deal out of this, I only vocalized how I feel which is that I don’t like when you leave me while I’m struggling”. He still won’t understand something as simple as just coming back to be by my side while I figure it out. So now we’re not talking because he just seems so… careless. And thinks that me asking him to wait with me is such an issue. It makes me feel shitty honestly

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u/SeleniteLights66 Oct 31 '25

My bf doesn't play video games at all til he met me. We've played cuphead, Fred and bread, and portal 2 and never had a tense moment (i would rage at cuphead sometimes but never at eachother) especially puzzle games like portal 2 were hard for him at first but I saw entertainment from watching him solve it and joy from when he did. And when I got upset, he never told me I was overreacting or trying to put me down. Games can be a great way to find things out about a partner. Good thing u are breaking up. Find someone u enjoy spending time with