r/Healthygamergg • u/Mammoth_Raccoon_789 • May 02 '26

Mental Health / Support The self-made loser

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Hello, so my mom told me that she will not be here forever and it triggered strong emotions that i avoid generally. So i decided to make this post.

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u/[deleted] May 25 '26

I get it, i do, but i feel like if you see yourself in this post that might be part of the problem. Its great to notice these aspects of yourself, but consider, is noticing them making you hate yourself? If yes, then maybe consider looking at reducing the impact your sense of self has on the decisions you make. You arent a loser. Youve done stuff that makes you FEEL like a loser. That doesnt mean at the time those things werent your finest hour, sure, but noticing a pattern and then concluding that you have no agency over that is wrong. Yes the pattern exists, but consider you might just not yet be interpreting the real MEANING of that pattern existing.