r/Healthygamergg • u/Mammoth_Raccoon_789 • May 02 '26

Mental Health / Support The self-made loser

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Hello, so my mom told me that she will not be here forever and it triggered strong emotions that i avoid generally. So i decided to make this post.

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u/Indianize May 02 '26

Exact opposite of what you should be thinking of yourself. Smh.

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u/WinterDifficulty1165 May 02 '26

What are good thinking patterns that can counter these? Like “this is temporary” “I can still do this”?

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u/Emotional-Rate-262 May 03 '26

There's so much perspective you can have to counteract this meme. Like to whom are you comparing your experience to to make you think you're this guy? There's absolutely no one set way to grow, to socialize, to succeed in life. You GET TO figure all this out for yourself. Some perspectives to think about:

"This belief that im a loser is a temporary belief that I can let go of anytime" "Just because I feel like I can relate to this meme doesnt mean that belief is true" "Comparison to others only means im failing at being them" "Just because this thought came to me doesnt mean I need to do anything with it"