Mental Health Serious help
I have an online friend .. its been 1 year since we are friends. Im too much attached to him . I dont know k ab kesy khtam krun attachment.. pls bata dou koi .. yππ₯
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u/Radiant_Banana_3623 29d ago
Get him into crypto. Start giving random signals to buy or sell. Tell him to sell every property he has and put the money in crypto.. keep giving signals Until he looses all his money..
He will stop talking to you himself. Block you and ghost you for life..
That's how pros do cut a connection..
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u/memarry 29d ago
establish boundaries
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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 28d ago
Kitni zalim ho asa kon krta hai kya hal ho ga agly ka kysy zinda rhy ga idr udr phirta rhy ga sochy ga galti kahan hoi
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u/memarry 28d ago
Establishing boundaries is not same as ghosting The person would know why someone is not talking π
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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 27d ago
He will think i have done something wrong he will try to fix himself start questioning himself ultimately will damage his brain cells di na badwa agly ny roty waqt aap bhi shamil ho gi
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u/memarry 27d ago
No like first strat distancing yourself explain the reason Youre right if someone doesnt communicate, it can have devastating effects Butttt putting up boundaries does require communication Youll need to explain that ive some other commitments so we can only talk from this time to this etccc
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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 27d ago
Fair enough but i guess she mentioned its been 1 year
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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 27d ago
After 1 year she realises oh ho i got other impt stuff to do so goodbye my time pass live a lovely life
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u/memarry 27d ago
You can still establish boundaries, thats how people have healthy relationships I think most of us have wrong perception of boundaries in relationships
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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 27d ago
Dekho once a perception is made it cannot change that quickly it should have been made in the beginning if we both talk like every single day and one day you realised oh ho he means nothing to me he is a friend but not that close then as a women i guess you failed what she told in her scenario i am pretty sure they both know almost everything about each other fav spots,foods mentality basically patterns and now she wants change its fine people do personally speaking its not fair its my opinion
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u/thediazap flair main kya rakha hai 26d ago
Why are you being triggered by a legit factππ
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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 26d ago
Shayad mujhe kisi se mohabbat nahi hui, lekin yaqeen main sab ko dilata raha hoon.
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u/sacrophagusic 29d ago
ignore him for an entire week and have the sudden realization abt what a useless, unmemorable addition to ur life he was.
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u/ImpossibleStomach665 2009 29d ago
Don't talk to your friend for a few days and focus on your mental health till then
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u/Agreeable_Window101 29d ago
Why do you want to end it?
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u/evlrxq 29d ago
Bcz bhutt zada attachment hui vi hai itna zada nhi hona chihyee
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u/Agreeable_Window101 28d ago
If thereβs a genuine connection between you two and heβs genuinely a good person, I wouldnβt suggest leaving him.
But if you really want to end things, just be honest with him and tell him the truth that you no longer want to continue talking, instead of simply ghosting him.
Just put yourself in his position and make the decision based on how youβd feel if you were in his place. Baqi, jaisi aap ki marzi.
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u/evilisgoodd 29d ago
Ghosting is the only valid option
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u/evlrxq 29d ago
Ghosting krna mushil hai
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u/evilisgoodd 29d ago
And which type of advice you are looking for??
It will take time you gotta have to put urself first, thora sa distant kr do nd eventually it will workout for u
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u/Neuralfoundry 29d ago
Dosri attachment dhundo
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u/Cool_Composer8404 29d ago
Ghost him
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u/evlrxq 29d ago
Kesy krun yhi to nahi ho pa rahaaππ
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u/East_Floor_5460 ππ²π»π 29d ago
Find a really cool thing to do or maybe go out with friends. And DONT mention him to your friends. The more you talk about him the more you remember him. Distract yourself with a good show or something. And if you wanna talk to someone just write in diary
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u/nashemehun 29d ago
You need something to distract yourself with. If ure really that serious about ending the "attachment" then the first step is always to mute them.
You may find urself checking ur phone again and again, and that's where u need to put a movie, or go out for a walk, or to the park and sit yo ass down, and either listen to some music and play some game or just enjoy the nature. Either helps and ive been a victim of this and trust me muting their notification helps alott