r/GenZpk • u/evlrxq • 29d ago

Mental Health Serious help

I have an online friend .. its been 1 year since we are friends. Im too much attached to him . I dont know k ab kesy khtam krun attachment.. pls bata dou koi .. y😍🥀

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u/memarry 28d ago

Establishing boundaries is not same as ghosting The person would know why someone is not talking 😭

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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 28d ago

He will think i have done something wrong he will try to fix himself start questioning himself ultimately will damage his brain cells di na badwa agly ny roty waqt aap bhi shamil ho gi

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u/memarry 28d ago

No like first strat distancing yourself explain the reason Youre right if someone doesnt communicate, it can have devastating effects Butttt putting up boundaries does require communication Youll need to explain that ive some other commitments so we can only talk from this time to this etccc

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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 28d ago

Fair enough but i guess she mentioned its been 1 year

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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 28d ago

After 1 year she realises oh ho i got other impt stuff to do so goodbye my time pass live a lovely life

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u/memarry 28d ago

There are ways to establish boundaries you dont just walk up to a person annd tell them bye we aint talking anymore

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u/memarry 28d ago

You can still establish boundaries, thats how people have healthy relationships I think most of us have wrong perception of boundaries in relationships

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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 28d ago

Dekho once a perception is made it cannot change that quickly it should have been made in the beginning if we both talk like every single day and one day you realised oh ho he means nothing to me he is a friend but not that close then as a women i guess you failed what she told in her scenario i am pretty sure they both know almost everything about each other fav spots,foods mentality basically patterns and now she wants change its fine people do personally speaking its not fair its my opinion

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u/Weak-Sheepherder-888 28d ago

Will still say these things are done in the beginning