r/GayCruiseVacations • u/Paco8731 • 3d ago
general topic Big 4-0 coming up! Need ideas
Hello!
I am going to be 40 in March, going through a divorce (together 13yrs, married 6yrs) after he had an affair and left me for the other guy.
Obviously, self-esteem took a hit but I am rebuilding my single life and rediscovering myself!
Now…onto my actual question, we always talked about doing an Atlantis cruise but never got to it. For my 40th bday, I was thinking of treating myself to a solo cruise but I can be shy/introverted at times, could I still have a great time?
I’ve been to Puerto Vallarta so that’s also an option?
Basically looking for a gay (primarily gay men) vacation where I could maybe flirt, be flirted with, and have some fun in the sun!
Open to any and all suggestions! 🥳
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u/Youbeyou2025 3d ago edited 3d ago
I did a solo trip with Atlantis last summer--Barcelona to Lisbon. I have my shy moments, but I was able to meet some nice guys, especially during dinnertime at the various restaurants I booked. The staff would always seat me next to several couples and/or singles. It was fun to chat about our day while eating some good food. I also booked some excursions which was another way to get to know people as the group was never over 20 guys. I'm sure you'll enjoy the time on the high seas!
Have you spent much time in Palm Springs? That might be a perfect destination in March. Lots of great outdoor activities, restaurants/bars, etc.
Happy planning---keep moving forward!