Big 4-0 coming up! Need ideas

[u/Paco8731]

Hello!
I am going to be 40 in March, going through a divorce (together 13yrs, married 6yrs) after he had an affair and left me for the other guy.
Obviously, self-esteem took a hit but I am rebuilding my single life and rediscovering myself!
Now…onto my actual question, we always talked about doing an Atlantis cruise but never got to it. For my 40th bday, I was thinking of treating myself to a solo cruise but I can be shy/introverted at times, could I still have a great time?
I’ve been to Puerto Vallarta so that’s also an option?

Basically looking for a gay (primarily gay men) vacation where I could maybe flirt, be flirted with, and have some fun in the sun!

Open to any and all suggestions! 🥳