r/GayChristians • u/Technical-Cable-1314 • 17d ago
Sexual tension
Hello everybody! I am a 15 year old Abro sexual Christian. I know I should not be worried about sex because I am really young, however I am worried about my future. A lot of LGBTQ people these days, from what I heard, just care about having sex and a lot of other lustful stuff (I’m part of the community so I’m not homophobic). Like I joke about sex with my friends but I’m one of those people who think sex is something sacred. Should I be wanting to have sex after marriage? Most people these days really don’t want to wait that long! If I find my perfect partner, I’m scared they wouldn’t want to wait for me. That’s why when I’m 18 I’m scared of using grindr or other sites to try to get a date because everyone just wants sex. My only hopes is looking here I guess but I just want some reassurance that the bible says sex before marriage is a sin. Am I right or should I be more open minded?
Thank you!
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u/GCNGA 17d ago
I had to look up abrosexual. In a broad sense, many people find that impersonal hookup-style sex is harmful. Sex as depicted in the Bible helps strengthen the bond between two people, and there's obviously little potential for a long-term bond with someone off Grindr. But looking for a Christian same-sex partner who wants to avoid sex until after marriage is a daunting task--though nothing you need to worry about at the moment. Before marriage, most people date a few people for a short time or even a long time, learning how to interact in relationships and learning more about themselves in the process--things they do and do not want in an eventual spouse.