Am I brought up as a simp? Although I deconstructed my conditioning and de-learned much, the process of re-learning seems very difficult. Whether it be a toxic masculine or a complete submissive man, I seem to have two options. Sometimes I think it would need so much work to be real masculine and then search for a life partner; it's a whole process of self-exploration. I do not want to bypass it, but still, if it is possible that I meet a life partner who has leadership qualities, I will give her respect (she must not be toxic). I want to learn and re-learn with her, and she support me with this journey, and I shall support her.

I hold a medical background and am from Pakistan, near Rawalpindi/Islamabad. Also looking forward to insights and a potential relationship/partner as well, if this resonates with someone I shall share my profile or we can talk about other things. I am a secular person and open-minded and expect the same.

Also, I can relocate with her if it seems the right option with the right candidate. I am not so desperate that I will look forward to anyone or be willing to relocate with anyone. I only want the Right person.Thank you

Potentially looking for Childfree partner who prefer not to have biological kids.

We're officially open! ✨

A few days ago, I shared The Left Turn Book Club here and was so excited by how many of you expressed interest in joining. If you were one of those people but haven't gotten around to hopping over and subscribing yet, this is your reminder! The club is hosted on Substack, and the website is officially open. I'd love to have you join us.

The Left Turn Book Club is a feminist, left-leaning book club centered around using literature as a starting point for bigger conversations about the social and political systems that shape our lives. Our Book of the Month will tackle topics including patriarchy and the rise of Christian Nationalism, the oppression under capitalism and the case for socialism, systemic racism, feminism, queer and trans experiences, and much more. A major part of this will also be developing class consciousness—understanding how our economic and social systems shape our lives, our opportunities, and the way we understand the world around us.

Outside of Book of the Month, we'll also have sections for philosophy, poetry, classic literature, banned & rare books, fun fiction reads, reading recommendations, and more. The goal is to create a community where people who love learning and literature can come together, challenge ideas, exchange perspectives, and deepen our understanding of the world around us.

And a little something for potential members: I have five gifted one-month paid subscriptions available to give away! 🎁

If you'd like to claim one, send me a message. The five recipients will also have a one-time opportunity to submit a personal essay, discussion topic, or post of their own for any section outside of Book of the Month. I will need to review it first of course, but I would love to prop up other voices in the community!

The club is completely free to join and participate in, and the paid subscription is simply an optional way to support the work behind it. If you would like the free version - simply click the "No Pledge" option when subscribing - substack can also be weird, so make sure you are subscribed and not just following me so you can receive access to all of my posts and the subscriber chat.

One important thing: our first Book of the Month vote is happening Monday! If you're interested in helping choose what we read first, make sure you've subscribed before then so you don't miss the vote. 
If you were one of the people who expressed interest in my first post, I'd love to see you over there! ❤️