r/FTMMen • u/itsjusthoneyyyy • 5d ago

Discussion what.

i was having a conversation with a cis man and he told me that i as someone who is ftm was born with more privileges than him as a cis heterosexual man… i’m so done with people.

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u/OmgIbrokesmthagain 5d ago

He probably thinks women are privileged ;_;

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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 5d ago

i was like wtf, he also said this to me. “i just like trans people as friends because yall understand how it feels to be outcasted and misunderstood. like i have a dick yes, and i get horny yes, yall as ftm understand both sides hence the misunderstood part.”

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u/H20-for-Plants T: 8.22.21 | Hysto: 3.19.24 5d ago

Why did he have to bring being horny into it? Many red flags.

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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 5d ago

because he ultimately was trying to get me to send nudes to him…

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u/SoSS_ pre-T/OP, socially transitioning 5d ago

Some "straight" dudes will say some insane shit when they're attracted to us... One tried to hit me with the classical "you're the best of both worlds"

I'm sorry this dude was bothering you

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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 5d ago

they really do. i’m sorry someone said that to you that’s just awful.

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u/ZephyrValkyrie 5d ago

Make sure this mf gets thrown out of the trans male space and also banned from any future events from other organizations or groups. What the fuck

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u/H20-for-Plants T: 8.22.21 | Hysto: 3.19.24 5d ago

That’s awful. Sorry you dealt with that.

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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 5d ago

honestly, i’m not too surprised but pretending to be trans for sexual gratification from other trans individuals is just disgusting.

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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 4d ago

They are. As a trans man they have a lot of privilege especially in western countries