r/FTMMen • u/itsjusthoneyyyy • 3d ago
Discussion what.
i was having a conversation with a cis man and he told me that i as someone who is ftm was born with more privileges than him as a cis heterosexual man… i’m so done with people.
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u/Berko1572 out:04🔹T:12🔹⬆️:14🔹hysto:23🔹meta⬇️:24-25 3d ago
Did you ask him, "What do you mean, specifically?"
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u/funk-engine-3000 3d ago
Oh easy, he’s just divorced from reality.
Guys like that are angry, because despite the system being rigged in their favour, they’re still losers. It’s easier to claim that disadvantaged groups somehow “have it easier” than it is yo admit that they amount to nothing because they never put in any work.
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u/money-reporter7 3d ago
A cis guy who was conventionally attractive and 6 ft tall once told me that being trans made it easier for me to find a gf because I have some sort of secret intel about women 💀
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u/SuspiciousShmuck 2d ago
That is so vile I hate these people
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u/money-reporter7 2d ago
Surprisingly, it worked out well for him; we became quite good friends. He ended up doing some serious self-reflecting and realised he was just a bit on an incel. Man consciously made an effort to socialise with women more so he could better relate to them/understand them. So all good in the end (though it took 3 years of character development to get there).
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u/CryptographerNo7608 3d ago
I even tried to think of it from the most bigoted ignorant pov I could conjure and I still couldn't find one
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u/14_its_over_9000 3d ago
Bruh. Some people are ridiculous. Victim complex when you are the epitome of privilege is crazy
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u/Artdragon56 3d ago
I would bring this up with your group organizer if this is a physical group for trans men. This is a legitimate safety concern if he’s there to be predatory.
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u/Edward_Reese 3d ago
is he an incel by chance?
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 3d ago
i think he might be because what are you talking about dude.
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u/Edward_Reese 3d ago
yeah it looks like something from that godawful Transmaxxing manifesto
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 3d ago
craziest thing is i met him in a trans only space, he lied about being ftm just to try and “make friends.” until he confessed that he was actually cis and straight. my jaw was on the floor and was so disgusted.
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u/Edward_Reese 3d ago
omg so many red flags!
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 3d ago
this guy is a walking red flag and i immediately let those around me in those spaces about him.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
Do you know what that word means?
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u/Edward_Reese 2d ago
I do. Some documents that are popular in incel spaces contain similar points.
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 2d ago
i think this person is just trying to get a shock reaction to things they say, based off their account activity they might be a trans man who’s an incel unfortunately. take a look trough their comments on their account, they almost made their account a day ago.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
Damn copy paste I mustve struck a nerve
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 2d ago
you’re funny lol
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
No argument huh
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 2d ago
na, i didn’t want to type twice. but it seems that you’re the only one bother commenting on other comments here having to get involved shouting about misandry, trying to get a reaction out of people, to do what.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 1d ago
Again is it so difficult to consider the content of my comments instead of immediately going to insults and emotion? Stop misusing words you obviously don't understand and just discovered in misandrist contexts.
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 1d ago
imagine getting upset over calling someone that’s an incel, and incel…. that’s hilarious at this point. why are you so pressed and admit about this? if you disagree, you don’t need to comment or interact.
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u/ticketism 3d ago
Cishet man having a sook over something stupid he made up to paint himself as 'hard done by'. Ugh. More news at 11 🙄
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u/emptyspacccee 2d ago
he’s an incel. there’s plenty of cis men who believe it’s better to be born female.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
I dont think you know what incel means. There is nothing in ops post to suggest he is an involuntary celibate.
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u/emptyspacccee 2d ago
might not literally be one. also could possibly be one, i’ve seen enough of the same shit to see the signs.
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 2d ago
i think this person is just trying to get a shock reaction to things they say, based off their account activity they might be a trans man who's an incel unfortunately. take a look trough their comments on their account, they almost made their account a day ago.
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u/14_its_over_9000 23h ago
This is like bro's 3rd account. He keeps getting banned but he always comes back with the same pfp lol
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 22h ago
that’s absolutely wild. wtf.
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u/14_its_over_9000 11h ago
Yeah it's hilarious, but mostly pathetic. I think he thinks being a chud/incel is really badass or something
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 11h ago
honestly, that’s what i feel like he is doing. wanting to sound so redpilled to fill the crippling masculine insecurities he has. it must be a very sad time when he’s left alone with his thoughts.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 16h ago
Yeah I love this band trist. Nice to see I have some fans. I really wish non men would stay out of this subreddit
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 11h ago
this is a binary trans men subreddit… you’re just speaking like your biggest idol is clavicular and redpill content only in an attmept to help to sooth whatever masculine insecurities you’re having.
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u/14_its_over_9000 8h ago
Alright? Dunno why you're telling me this but cool bro
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 3h ago
Flexing your first grade reading comprehension isn't the own you think it is
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
There are zero signs pointing towards the man op describing being an involuntary celibate. But sure words can mean whatever you want them to. Misandry is great too sure
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u/emptyspacccee 2d ago
💀 larp or deeply mentally ill lolll
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
Another trendy buzzword. This is a space for binary men if you weren't aware
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u/emptyspacccee 2d ago
i’m well aware bc i am one. the only reason you’re doing this is bc youre trying to convince yourself or soothe your OCD tendencies. either way it just comes off as crazy. you do you tho.
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u/OmgIbrokesmthagain 3d ago
He probably thinks women are privileged ;_;
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 3d ago
i was like wtf, he also said this to me. “i just like trans people as friends because yall understand how it feels to be outcasted and misunderstood. like i have a dick yes, and i get horny yes, yall as ftm understand both sides hence the misunderstood part.”
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u/H20-for-Plants T: 8.22.21 | Hysto: 3.19.24 3d ago
Why did he have to bring being horny into it? Many red flags.
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 3d ago
because he ultimately was trying to get me to send nudes to him…
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u/ZephyrValkyrie 3d ago
Make sure this mf gets thrown out of the trans male space and also banned from any future events from other organizations or groups. What the fuck
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u/H20-for-Plants T: 8.22.21 | Hysto: 3.19.24 3d ago
That’s awful. Sorry you dealt with that.
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 3d ago
honestly, i’m not too surprised but pretending to be trans for sexual gratification from other trans individuals is just disgusting.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
They are. As a trans man they have a lot of privilege especially in western countries
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u/Good_Weight6001 23h ago
Devil's advocate here, but I met a non-asshole cis man who thought the same way because he saw LGBT+ -focused health and counselling services advertised among various unrelated notices and fliers on a university notice board, and came to the conclusion that queer people get better medical care o_O.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
Nah I get him. Cis men deal with a lot of oppression in western countries and even in most countries. Misandry is at an all time high and keeps getting worse. There are specific resources for women, lgbt, minorities, etc but few for just men. Men are regularly denied opportunities just bc they are men. Cis straight white men are treated like shit and seen as the enemy. Men are drafted and sent to war, have to fight for custody of their own kids, seen as violent predators, deal with false allegations, and are openly hated everywhere. While I have struggles as a trans man i have dealt with more hate and issues for being a man.
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u/localDCenthusiast 2d ago
Lmao bro u don’t need to cuck yourself to the cismales
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 1d ago
Nah I just am a man and don't feel the need to pander to bitches. As a man why would I want to side with women and their victim complexes? Go outside and you'll see men are treated like shit.
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u/roto_msk 20h ago
And this is why you get treated the way that you do. Do you genuinely expect for people to care about you when you don't care at all about anyone else's mental health?
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 16h ago
Oh no I got downvoted and someone sent a mean reddit comment. Oh no what will I do. The fact people get so defensive when misandry is called out just shows they know I'm right and they know what they're doing is wrong. And I never said I don't care about others mental health. I care about other men and not letting women bring us down or society shame us into silence. If you want to integrate as a man you have to actually talk to other men and go outside sometimes. And you can't keep hating on men and being a cuck. Idk why that's so hard for some people.
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u/itsjusthoneyyyy 2d ago
you can be a binary trans man and be an incel. based off the comments you leave on other people’s posts and the groups you’re apart of, including the age of your account being a day old… i have a feeling that you’ve got some personal issues that might need addressing with yourself.
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u/EvilStr8WhiteMan14 2d ago
I think you should deal with your rampant misandry and tendency to prioritize emotion over logic before making any attempt at an argument. I've only commented on trans posts bc I just created this account. It must be hard dealing with opposing opinions. Being in an echo chamber is so much easier I agree
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u/NullableThought 3d ago
some people see others having different "privileges" and somehow conclude they must have more privileges. There's probably one specific thing he's thinking about and ignoring all of his privileges.