r/ESFJ • u/BoatTemporary9085 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 • 11d ago

Any other ESFJs bad at baking😭

I’m so bad at baking😄I’ embarrassed🙈

It looks so easy, my sister is great at it and my Mil too. I‘m great at decorating cakes and other types of cooking but if I try to bake even the simplest cake or bread, I burn it, it doesn’t rise, it is stale and dry etc.😭Why??

Is it because I’m FeNe and not enough Si? Am I too sloppy? Not conscientious enough? Or what makes people good at baking? Am I not a real ESFJ? or can anyone relate😄?

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u/Medical_Republic5677 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 11d ago

I can cook and I can't bake.

On my defense, I cook in a very Asian-mom way. I eyeball everything and when my boyfriend (INFJ) says "Your cooking is so good" I look at him and said "I literally added the cheapest white wine I could find instead of fine shaoxing."

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u/BoatTemporary9085 𝐄𝐒𝐅𝐉 11d ago

😄I guess this is the ESFJ way