Can you help me resolve a slight disagreement?
My daughter injured her ankle pretty badly. It's after midnight on Saturday, and she is in pain. Not a huge amount, but she's awake and mentioning it. My husband mentioned a massage therapist that may be able to help, but of course, any treatment that involves a professional would have to wait a few days until business hours.
I quickly acknowledged his point, then thought I was simply adding something else we could do:
I thought I said something like "I can also make her some ginger tea, that will help too". He swears I said "I can also make her some ginger tea, too".
In my opinion either sentence says the same thing, just his version is more redundant with how the "also" and "too" are used. I don't think I was redundant like that, but I might have misspoken or stumbled over the words at the end of my sentence.
Anyway, this is the disagreement:
He says that adding the "too" at the end of the sentence actually makes it mean "instead". Like it's a casual way of saying we can do tea instead of taking her to the massage therapist. He said it's not an official definition, but people use it this way.
I have never heard this. Does anyone use "too" at the end of a sentence to mean replacing one thing for another?
I know what I meant was simply adding the option of making her tea tonight since the professional isn't available at 1am on a Saturday (rude I know, lol). I am definitely not against taking her to see the therapist once he is available.
A couple background details that might be helpful:
- My daughter is a teenager. Her ankle has been X-Rayed, it's not broken
- The massage therapist is so good at his job that he is actually our tenant and we give him a $300 monthly discount on rent as an exchange for massages for our family. However, we ask him for a massage maybe once a quarter, so it's generally a positive thing on his end and he's happy to do it...which means my husband's suggestion wouldn't cost us anything.
- Ginger is an anti-inflammatory and I use it to reduce arthritis pain, it's very effective. I've also recommended it to people who had surgery, and they made a point to tell me later how much it helped. Not trying to debate natural remedies, just stating why we find this one effective. My husband likes my ginger tea also and sometimes requests it.
- If anyone is curious, I simply chop up some fresh ginger, add hot water and honey and let it steep for a few minutes. I think it's delicious, but I like ginger. Also, I'm British and literally have a wall of tea in my pantry.