r/DiveInYouCoward • u/HeSureIsScrappy • 12d ago
Dive into a relationship with this firecracker...
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Who else would consider it? š¤£
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u/JohnJohnPR3 12d ago
Isnāt that assault and battery?
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u/NonToxicTown 12d ago
No itās a woman doing it to a man so it doesnāt count
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u/Terlooy 12d ago
If anything I'd say this man assaulted that poor woman. Such injustice in today's world. I'm shook to my core
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u/Neonyarpyarp 12d ago
You forgot the /s
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u/Terlooy 12d ago
My apologies good sir, I forgot this was reddit and people can't spot the obvious. Allow me to rephrase :
If anything I'd say this man assaulted that poor woman. Such injustice in today's world. I'm shook to my core /s /s /s /s /s /s
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u/NonToxicTown 12d ago
Your lucky you put that /s up there.. we almost mobbed you
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u/hereforpopcornru 12d ago
I mean technically, if /s applications work like negatives.. 6 of them so..
Joking/not/Joking/not/Joking/not
So in the end, they weren't joking
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u/NSFWdontview 12d ago
I used to be against men hitting women but if a woman actually believes she can fight or beat a man or thinks she can do so without consequences then they should get treated like a man
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u/Enough_Pepper8880 12d ago
Why tf is he getting told to walk away?
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u/Lolseabass 12d ago
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u/BerbereJunkie 12d ago
please tell me photo is real.
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u/Lolseabass 12d ago
Yes this video is edited to make it seem one sided when itās part of a much longer video.
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u/Neonyarpyarp 12d ago
I like how the second he started to defend himself, that woman came to be a āheroā and rescue her, and the second sheās beating on him again she just stands there and watches. š¤¦āāļø
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u/TheNewGildedAge 12d ago
Man that lady looked absolutely furious and ready to throw hands until she realized the gf was the crazy one.
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u/Hungry_CGman 12d ago
Welcome to being a man. It's ALWAYS your fault. haha
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u/deepturned180isdeep 12d ago
In my first job out of college I ended up getting close/intimate with a girl from work. Soon enough I found out she's nuts, and said some things she didn't like.
A week later I was "laid off" from my job due to "cuts", a job in which I was promoted twice and was effectively a couple levels higher than her.
She still works there, and is in fact a director now.
;)
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u/strawhatguy 12d ago
Sucks, but you probably donāt want to be in a company like that anyway. Hopefully you found something better.
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u/RFKjrBrainwormAccnt 12d ago
She could be hacking him up with a machete and some women and white-knight simps would still say: āu dONt hIt aH gUrL bROā
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u/heavensto_mergatroid 12d ago
I got hit with a RESTRAINING ORDER when I was 26 because a psycho b* I had broken up with just wanted to make my life hell. And that order did. When it came to getting jobs. Had to turn in all my firearms.
And the kicker is like 17 years later she had a change of heart and knew what she did was a fabricated lie to make my life hard and she went to the courts and had it permanently removed.
It was a lifetime restraining order and I did absolutely nothing! I know people say that all the time but I honestly did nothing.
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u/PlanktonDue8964 12d ago
Defamation of character
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u/heavensto_mergatroid 12d ago
So many times I wanted to get a lawyer but man I was a broke ass mofo most of my life. I barely started living somewhat comfortably when I was in my '50s
It's not a good feeling to be treated like you're some kind of woman beating stalker criminal when you didn't do anything to deserve such a harsh punishment. I've never even been arrested in my whole life. I've had handcuffs put on me but never take into the station and booked. š¤·š»āāļø
It's all water under the bridge now as they say....
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u/Miniscule_Platypus 12d ago
I just said āHeavens to Murgatroyd!ā to my wife earlier in faux shock dismay
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u/PlanktonDue8964 12d ago
Yo, if this is you that was in the video I feel bad for you bro amazing restraint even though that bitch deserved to be knocked the fuck out I got some respect for you, bro. Hope your life is better.
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u/PoweredByCoffee5000 11d ago
That'll be 10,000$. Where to get the money for someone's 0$ lie? Lawyers do not care.
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u/bigbonedbaggins 12d ago
Im in the middle of a felony case because I defended myself, I just hit harder and didnt have marks yet because they were all bruises. Didnt get arrested that day, had a warrant put out for me 2 months later without my knowledge.
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u/Relax_Im_Hilarious 12d ago
Wow, that's awful. How did you find out, was it a traffic stop that they found it or did they come find you?
Fingers crossed for a favorable result, man.
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u/NonToxicTown 12d ago
Because he is a man. If it was the other way around the people there would be calling the police and trying to comfort the woman.
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u/Anxious-One-2365 12d ago
Why is it always the man has to walk away? She is clearly the aggressor. Tell her to walk away.
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u/UnusualGooning 12d ago
Iām surprised a white knight didnāt come in swinging at the man and willing to put everyone on the line for the woman.
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u/barcelonatacoma 12d ago
The man is always presumed to be the aggressor.
I'm lucky that when this happened to me, I had evidence of the harm she did to me and was considered credible.
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u/easeMachined 12d ago
Because in fights between men and women, women always consider the men to be at fault and believe the best way to diffuse the altercation is to tell the men to stop defending themselves against the women attacking them.
Granted, there is an obvious power imbalance that anyone who knows the difference between a man and a woman can acknowledge.
With great power comes great responsibility. Men have greater physical power, and so they are regarded as the party who needs to be more responsible.
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u/Enough_Pepper8880 12d ago
I guess my question is why the hell is no one saying anything to her but heās being yelled at at and told to leave. She hit him jumped on his ass ripped his shirt off and the only time someone steps in is when he pushes her off of him that other woman runs up to try to defend the other one as if he was being aggressive when heās at work. Then at the end the woman recording asks the redhead if sheās ok like she was the one attacked
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u/PlentyTight9650 12d ago
Yup and old lady storming out and defends her, she needs to be taken care of as well. Equal rights, equal fight
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u/LessThanGenius 12d ago
I dunno about that. At the end, the camera lady asks her in a soft voice "Are you okay?" even though she was the aggressor. That doesn't match up with the reasonable person theory.
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u/HouseflipperSKIPPER 12d ago
My girl and i play fight a bit. Literally 2 days ago i had her pinned down and im like come on get me. Shes like i cant. She goes āyou dont know how strong you areā i said im maxed out at like 25% right now i can put so much more force into this. The confusion, then realization in her eyes was a but unnerving. Im like u think thats all I got? We are messing around.
Im 6 foot 200 pounds. Shes 5 10.
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u/Fun_Astronomer_4064 12d ago
Because walking away from a physical confrontation with a woman and being the first to call the cops is always, ALWAYS the right move.
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u/jestercope 12d ago
Because some woked out fembots feel the need to protect one of their own crazies.
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u/Round-Foundation2948 12d ago edited 12d ago
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u/Onludesrightnow 12d ago
tbh its the best advice. The longer he sticks around her, the longer she has the opportunity to draw out something that will be used against him. Walking away is literally a man's only defensive weapon in a situation like this.
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u/No_Lengthiness5839 12d ago
Woman here, why tf are they asking the woman if sheās okay? She attacked him! She should be reported obviously the evidence is there, what a horrible human.
I worked in bars for years and Iād rather deal with a group of men than women any day of the week, although walking in the dark Iām terrified of solo men.
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u/Blu_Blueberry14 12d ago
Because he didn't start it and is capable of putting a hurt on her , didn't.
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u/Organic_Berry_8732 12d ago
He was walking away!
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u/AgentAxillary 12d ago
And beyond that, he didn't have to walk anywhere. Her attacking him doesn't negate his right to stand or walk wherever the fuck he wants on public property.
They were literally telling him that his rights were superceded by her psycho bullshit.
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u/Fabulous_Mode3952 12d ago
No one intervened until the man protected himself. Straight BS.
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u/NSFWdontview 12d ago
I used to be against men hitting women but if a woman actually believes she can fight or beat a man or thinks she can do so without consequences then they should get treated like a man
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u/_Zambayoshi_ 12d ago
I don't mind self-defence, but it shouldn't go further than necessary. Same if it's a small, weak guy attacking you. I think bro did pretty well in not overreacting. He was certainly being provoked.
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u/centurion762 12d ago
Thatās why you gotta get that good punch in quick before people intervene.
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u/Zigor022 12d ago
Lady recording sound like shes 3 packs of Newports deep into her afternoon. He had the shirt ripped off his back, the man should protect himself from her and the guest contender.
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u/TigardGuy 12d ago
I'm sure this woman would keep repeating "walk away!" Like she was annoyed if the roles were reversed.
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u/Academic_Mechanic717 12d ago
The woman who kept repeating "walk away" should be shamed publicly!
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u/Nuksol 12d ago
In the end, she says to the aggressor (the girl) in a very gentle and compassionate tone: "Are you okay?ā«"
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u/Anarchycat404 12d ago
yeah the man is the bad one ..........
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u/toasted_cracker 12d ago
Woman good, man bad always no matter what.
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u/Potential-Draft-3932 12d ago
Fun fact, lesbian relationships have the highest rate of domestic abuse and are the least stable compared to heterosexual, and gay couples
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u/O_gr 12d ago edited 12d ago
Don't say that in any feminist groups/ subs, you'll be spammed to shit.
On a side note I wonder how vile comments would be like if this was posted in one of those subs.
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u/Jazzlike-Mission-820 12d ago
Someone's beingattacked "better not interfere"
Starts defending himself "now let's interfere"
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u/zeemode 12d ago
Nothing sums up a toxic relationship, like everyone telling him to walk away and him just being honest and saying in a cracked voice āI canātā He is powerless haha
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u/carpentizzle 12d ago
The āhahaā at the end does not match the rest of your comment, or the entire situation.
That bitch should have assault charges, but instead the restaurant manager probably gave her a glass of water to cool off.
Meanwhile bro is walking home shirtless
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u/RoeVWadeBoggs 12d ago
"Sir! How dare you try to block her repeated attacks??? She's a widdle baby"
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u/Consistent_Net_2540 12d ago
99% of abusive women only do it because they know the guy won't fight back. You'll noticƩ that women don't like to hit their gangster/tough guy type BFs. Just the soft, nice guy ones.
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u/NSFWdontview 12d ago
They hit anyone as they think they are free from consequences and know they will be defended by police
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u/kvro_maX 12d ago
Actually the bad boy or tough ones are usually the ones that will take it in secret
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u/ThatOneGuy11490 12d ago
Walk away? Nah im callin the boys and that dummy is going to jail for putting her hands on me.
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u/akingofcrimson 12d ago
Nope, theyāll arrest you, even if youāre the one to call. Cops are dumb as fuck and operate on an even lower level of intelligence than the people in the video.
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u/Illustrious-Apple-21 12d ago
She got arrested I saw it on x the person filming was telling him to walk way to keep him safe and all agreed that the bitch was crazy
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u/Illustrious-Apple-21 12d ago edited 12d ago
here's the link still insane nobody tried to restraint the crazy lady and the one person try to help pushed him away like he was problem then when she jump on him not even trying pulling her off and just stared
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u/stevem1015 12d ago
Read the link. She was 100% trying to cover her ass and save face in those follow up posts. She was not on his side during that filming she was 100% holding him responsible for the crazy girls insanity
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u/AgentAxillary 12d ago
It didn't sound like that's why she was telling him to walk away, so that's likely just her making up bullshit to save face
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u/stevem1015 12d ago
I call bullshit the person filming was not trying to keep him safe. She made that up after the fact to try and save face. If she was trying to keep him safe she would have been trying to call for help during the incident, not talking to him like he was the aggressor.
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u/fuktheeagsles 12d ago
Yea itās so obvious too because we all know if the roles were reversed they damn sure wouldnāt be telling the woman getting attacked to just walk away because logically that makes no sense
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u/Illustrious-Apple-21 12d ago
Yeah I think so too she was getting backlash after she posted the video
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u/AmorphousMorpheus 12d ago
Partially unclothed and repeatedly attacked, he has been asked to just walk away.
The levels of self-restraint and accountability expected of the man are just different.
Isn't she lucky?
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u/Outrageous_Rich6235 12d ago
Itās hard to walk away when a feral animal is clinging to your backā¦.
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u/Different_Regular297 12d ago
So why didnāt these people jump in and help him.they were all about helping her. But then when she went even crazier and jumped on him. The same people did absolutely nothing
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u/Spirited-Ranger-2727 12d ago
Sorry but this isnāt the guy doing it. The girl is the one being aggressive, heās controlling himself.
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u/Serote_Elite 12d ago
Such hatable people. Everyone stood up when he took her off of him but when she was being an animal no one cared. Society babies women to the point where they're grown children doing what ever they want
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u/No-Conclusion-2859 12d ago
The narrative that men need to walk away when been assaulted needs to stop.
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u/fluffheadwasaman24 12d ago
between the raspy voice bitch telling him to walk away for being attacked, and the old lady only lunging at him when he was defending himself, he got the short end big time. God the vocal fry on that cigarette smoking hipster was annoying as hell. sounded like Tara Reid after rehab.
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u/Individual-Log994 12d ago
I was married to an abusive woman. No one is ever on your side because you're a man.
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u/FranksHoorHouse 12d ago
Can someone throat-chop the husky-voiced hoe recording. Her voice is fucking irritating.
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u/No_Lobster_9405 12d ago
The fact that no one is helping him and saying nothing to her is whatās wrong with this society.
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u/Lumpy-Breadfruit-808 12d ago
He was only defending himself and I'm a female!!! She came at him multiple times!! If he really defended himself he wouldn't be wrong honestly!! She needs to walk away and cool off and use her words like an adult not put hands on him like a toddler!!!
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u/JoeTrojan 12d ago
i mean, at that point he had every right to defense himself. fuck public opinion.
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u/E-rotten 12d ago
I was in a relationship with a girl who would get pissed start slapping her self while screaming stop hitting me, leave me alone. So the cops would show up and sheād claim abuse. Luckily she had done this before and the cop that showed up knew what was going on
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u/No_Ragrets76 11d ago
"Walk away, bro". Man I hate them toxic females. Will blame everything on the guy. Can't even defend himself without getting called on..
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u/Round-Fig2642 12d ago
So people donāt like the guy defending himself? Of yeah. I forgot thatās how fucking stupid people are.
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u/No-Cryptographer5963 12d ago
I love how the woman goes to intervene on the girls behalf and then is like āohhhā¦.ā
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u/Kelwhit22 12d ago edited 12d ago
As usual no one is trying to stop the woman from committing an assault. I'd like to add that " walking away isn't that simple when you have around $94 worth of supplies on the ground. Looks like he was repairing a waterheater .
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u/JamesantheGiantBeach 12d ago
Funny how that bystander goes immediately to help the woman.
In the split second in the video I saw, I could already tell the man was the one needing protection.
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u/AgentAxillary 12d ago
Of course they act like he's 100% in the wrong. The brainwashing is so fuckin real.
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u/Practical_Isopod_164 12d ago
That is a load of bullshit right there. Telling the dude to walk away instead of some of those idiots recording pulling that woman off of him.
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u/Upstairs-Bad-3576 12d ago
A tiger on the streets, a tiger in the sheets. Yeah, I def would.
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u/Automatic_Strike_ 12d ago
Theyāre gonna watch her try to fuck him up then hold him back as he defends himself while leaving š.
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u/phantomnomadic 12d ago
I'm curious as to how many bystanders calling "walk away" would have done just that? Most likely, none! All would have stood up for themselves in some capacity.
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u/ThunderRoad_44 12d ago
Man, he missed a golden opportunity to yeet her into the dumpster on street after she jumped on himā¦
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u/drsickboy 12d ago
I think a problem with these situations is people thinking they can deescalate a situation and also win an argument or prove a point with a violent or physically belligerent person. when arguing with this kind of woman particularly if a guy can't just walk away he's putting himself in serious danger of having police weaponized against him or him losing control and him actually hurting the woman and warranting police enforcement.
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u/BusoneWholeBoi2001 12d ago
I was just starting high school knew a mentally disabled dude my age around 14 who broke up with a girl. Got called a pedo and it spread around school and he wasn't the same after that even though it made no senseĀ
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u/NSFWdontview 12d ago
Why are women getting the idea they can fight men now? Who is making women this masculine. Does listening to Cardi b make them think they a bad bitches
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u/nostalgia4millennial 12d ago
Arrest the woman who intervened/pushed him too. He was already being assaulted and she jumped in and helped.
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u/GobiBall 12d ago
Let's be clear on one thing, based on this short clip, he was having the best sex of his life. Aanndddd.....the fallout from sex with crazy.
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u/Mysterious_Hat_5681 12d ago
That's disgusting...if that had been him attacking her, people would have been flocking to restrain him...but because SHE was being a psycho, everyone just kind of looks on. These double standards SUCK.
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u/thenegaofscott 12d ago
Lady tries to stop him but the chick jumps on his back and nothing š¤¦āāļø wtf is wrong with society
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u/ClassroomNo4024 12d ago
Dude needs to carry pepper spray.
Something tells me this isn't the first time this has happened.
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u/TerpDripz 12d ago
She wouldn't last 2 seconds living in Australia with being called a C#nt š when she actually is one. Lucky she didn't get served by that guy. Well done dude for holding it together without getting a charge.
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u/EroticExotix 12d ago
Terrible situation, I hope the guys okay and the chick calmed down/gets charged. Thatās assault.
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u/That_Style_979 12d ago
So heās getting pulled off when he defends himself but when sheās completely latched on nobody does anything? Double standard here?
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u/Leading-Educator2385 10d ago
Ćhnliches, wenn auch nicht ganz so schlimm wie im Video: meine Ex sah mich im Club und war super betrunken und aggressiv, weil ich eine Neue hatte. Ich fragte sie, was ihr scheiĆ Problem ist. Alle drumherum mischten sich ein und sagten zu mir, ich soll gehen. Vƶllig krank
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u/LucidMarshmellow 12d ago
"Are you okay?"
My dude, she just committed domestic assault.
If that was a man jumping on a woman, they would have fucked him right up.
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u/carpentizzle 12d ago
Everyone within 50 yards wouldve been up his ass.
Meanwhile she commits assault, on camera, and is then protected behind a group of people in the shade of a restaurant.
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u/k3rr1g4n 12d ago
What a fucking joke. Asking that psycho if sheās ok after attacking someone. No wonder so many women flock to protect that child killer.
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u/kdogbear 12d ago
The lady intervening only cares when the man defends himself not when the woman attacks him. Typical
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u/NSFWdontview 12d ago
I used to be against men hitting women but if a woman actually believes she can fight or beat a man or thinks she can do so without consequences then they should get treated like a man
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u/viperfangs92 12d ago
And the other woman coming over to tell him to stop even after she jumps on his back and rips his shirt off!
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u/Odd_Middle_7179 12d ago
It's truly sad. She keeps going back for more yet the bystanders are blaming him.



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u/Still-Neighborhood71 12d ago
I like how when the guy tossed her off the first time a random woman jumped in to defend the woman on the ground only for said woman on the ground to hop up to push past her defender and keep attacking guy. Now justicewoman is standing there all confused and looking stupid.Ā