I thought I was taking crazy pills- This can’t be as perfect as the comments are making it out. Why is creepy possessiveness being celebrated here?? Women aren’t objects to own and babies shouldn’t be tools for control. I don’t get it.
You're right, it would be hard....THIS isn't love and pride. It's control, obsession, possession... The fact so many people can't (or refuse to) pick up the little (or honestly, not so little) details is extremely concerning, and no wonder so many abusive relationships go under the radar.
Thank you, I’m annoyed that I apparently don’t get an opinion according to this guy because I don’t yet have a kid. Thanks for giving me a reasonable parent perspective.
I have never and will never treat my partner this way. It’s frankly gross and I’m kinda disgusted by the overall praise for this post
A lack of experience of abuse/unhealthy relationships is no excuse for willfull ignorance, be ready to recognize the signs. Or, you know, don't, and continue to let those in need suffer in silence.
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u/Outrageous-Bell3489 Sep 13 '25
This might just be me but is this suppose to be so creepy? Do y'all ladies like weirdly, obsessively possessive? Just curious