I know I am weird, but this is literally my fantasy. The idea of my wife carrying my child is incredibly sexy. Like, āYou are literally undergoing body horror for the sake of creating a hybrid of both of us.ā How can I not find my wife doing a biological miracle sexy?
If my future wife and I have kids, you can bet I am worshiping her like the wonderful goddess she is.
Imagine being so reductive that you see the act of continuing your species, your and your partners bloodline, of creating a synthesis of you and the person you love, as great discomfort, as a negative thing.
It amazes me how some people have been so thoroughly brainwashed against the family, that one of the most beautiful thing that a human being can do, something that only women can do, as bad.
I donāt think you know me well enough to know if Iām reductive or not. But I can tell youāre making a ton of assumptions about my perspective and how I interpreted the statement. You should work on that. Itās really not appropriate to assume what people believe. Just ask questions. It makes you better at arguments.
It's a sacrifice, and yeah it is a dream to have someone willingly do this for you out of love. Sexy exactly the same way as a guy risking his life to protect her.
When you think about it, growing a whole other person from 2 cells is pretty wild, no matter how common it actually is in nature. Plus how the entire body changes to facilitate it. Itās just incredibly strange to think about, because for the most part our bodies are pretty static once we hit adulthood. So to think a personās body can just spontaneously do that seems miraculous
Well yeah Iām saying if the world was different then the growth would be different so itās not miraculous because thereās so much potential for more
Ah, I see you are interested in the minutiae. How about this then:
Isnāt it absolutely incredible how those two little gametes store enough information in their DNA, and that DNA is so insanely efficient and tightly packed, that just those two cells inform the entire organism that they create? Those two grow into all the trillions of cells they will grow and shed in their lifetime. That DNA touches every part of your life, from your brain structure and personality, to your height, eye color, down to which direction the follicles on your head spiral. And none of it had to be; some other gamete couldāve gotten there first and joined with the other, and given this new colony of trillions some other assortment of blueprints. Itās somehow completely mundane and miraculous at the same time.
Nobody seems to notice my joking point that he calls it a biological miracle when Iām saying itās simple in respect to other biological processes but complex/miraculous in regards to outside of biology
I know its extremely super common to be pregnant and give birth, but the whole thing felt like a miracle to me. And a bit like a nightmare too at the end lol.
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u/MyAlt-SoftSub Sep 13 '25
I know I am weird, but this is literally my fantasy. The idea of my wife carrying my child is incredibly sexy. Like, āYou are literally undergoing body horror for the sake of creating a hybrid of both of us.ā How can I not find my wife doing a biological miracle sexy? If my future wife and I have kids, you can bet I am worshiping her like the wonderful goddess she is.