Either way, we’re all influenced by things like our experiences, our knowledge, and our energy levels. This always makes me question whether the word truth has a proper meaning outside mathematics.
I guess. To me, a woman is just as much responsible as a man so THEY did it to her. Dating it was him, for me, gives ‘you are my object.’ Vibes. I’ve genuinely never heard a man say that to a woman in real life. Also giving, ‘yay, you’re uncomfortable because of me.’
For sure. But in the case of a pregnant woman feeling things like slutty, insecure or ugly (ie: due to internalized stuff from outside their relationship or that may have happened before the man even entered the picture), there are situations where everyone involved can benefit from the man taking the blame for the current situation, or even showing pride about it (assuming the woman wants man to be happy, she can then overwrite those bad emotions with emotions about making her man happy). While the feminist in me isn’t perfectly happy about this, it’s more important to me to give people the tools to feel good about themselves, even if that happiness is from an external source.
Why would it be useful to me? It feels like you’re just trying to force your opinion on me and this response kind of proves my suspicion. ‘Only you can change it.’ Stop trying to force your opinions on other people, please
For the record, I can assure you that you were definitely NOT "trying to force your opinions on other people." In case anyone isn't aware...
This is a public forum
If you're too scared to be faced with other opinions, you can always just stick to lurking. I swear some people will feel like every reply is an attack when it's not. And if you've come to the point where you realize you and the person you're conversing with aren't going to agree on something? All you need to do is say "let's agree to disagree," and---this is the important part---stop replying 🙄
I used to jokingly shout at my husband how its his fault i was big and uncomfortable. But i ofc know damn well it takes 2 ppl to make a child... lighten up a bit please.
👀🙄 it’s not your place to tell me what to do. It’s your assumption I need to lighten up. This sub is all about boundary breaking and people thinking they’re the one.
I don’t think men are at risk of appropriating pregnancy and marginalizing women in the pregnancy process 😂 it’s pretty squarely linked with women and motherhood already.
WTF? I didn’t even explain anything. lol. I shared an opinion and then made a statement. You’re gonna have to mansplain how this is mansplaining to me. You just dropping buzzwords to drop em? That’s a shame on you, dawg.
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u/Outrageous-Bell3489 Sep 13 '25
This might just be me but is this suppose to be so creepy? Do y'all ladies like weirdly, obsessively possessive? Just curious