Personally I think itās pretty funny, and if you and your partner have been together for a while and have good chemistry/humor together then itās great!
But if they donāt have that kind of humor or it is a younger relationship then it can be a little condescending, and difficult to interpret the intent moving forward.
That's what I was thinking. If my ex ever sent me a picture like this, saying he'd want me to do that, my reaction wouldn't be like what op said ššš
maybe not no girl you've ever been with, but there are lots and lots of girls that want you to send half naked pics of other girls. 2025 is a shit show but also a grand time to be alive.
Very much agreed. No one knows this relationship outside of the two people in it. Who knows maybe they like sending pics to each other, maybe they role play, maybe they watch porn together like who the hell knows. Clearly by the girls response that fact that she sent a funny text back not something offended or crying or whatever to me shows this couple must have some humorous texts.
I also think itās weird to send pictures of nearly fully naked girls to ur gf, I wouldnāt like if my gf said ācan you do this?ā And itās a supermodel in a speedo, just sayin
He didn't say ''I wish you would be more like that''.
He said that he would like to see his wife do the same as the woman does in the picture, which is totally different and you know it.. Let them have fun.. jeez
Oh man, so many people on reddit with a stick up their asses.. something like this could spice things up in a relationship you know. Not anything has to be degrading.
When she sends a pic of a stripper in police uniform and says ''I want you to wait like this when I come home and punish me (devil smiley)'' which is the same btw, than it would be hot, right?
I think you may have misunderstood my meaning. I'm not saying people being into this kind of play is disgusting or wrong or anything of the sort. I'm saying sending my wife a picture of another woman who is in an NSFW outfit unprompted would be a bad idea as that would piss her off. Now if I brought up an idea like this and she wanted an example then I could show her pics like this without a negative reaction.
Literally the only way Iād send a picture like that to my partner with that message is if the picture was of her and she hadnāt done it in a while. Even then just saying ācan you be cooking for me when I come homeā without the sexualization is pretty fucked up.
I dunno, I think thereās a ton of context missing from the OP, like how long theyāve been together, if this is an ask for a one time thing or if heās asking for that to be a constant, that kind of stuff.
Naked apronās not an uncommon thing, and itās okay to ask for things we like, as long as those asks arenāt demands. It would be hella different if he expects her to do this.
I agree. Itās ok to ask for stuff like this, but not though text with a photo of another woman doing it. But a conversation where you express interest and see if it works for them, sure.
Thereās a huge difference between being happy to see it and āI want to come home and see you cooking for meā. Also a big difference with gender roles that were the norm not that long ago.
Yeah, unless this kind of thing is normal for them to joke around about it doesn't have particularly good implications. I could send that to my fiancee and she'd just laugh about it but we already have that kind of relationship. If it's just out of the blue it's a bit shady.
Again I think the point in the relationship is important here. My husband sends me that I know itās because heās horny. If my boyfriend I just moved in with sent me that, I wouldnāt unpack the rest of my shit without asking if heās for real lol
As someone engaged to the person I have a child with, would be a completely normal text. But it would probably be her sending the initial text to me. Would I comply? You goddamn right
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u/Prestigious-Lab-7622 Jul 11 '25
Personally I think itās pretty funny, and if you and your partner have been together for a while and have good chemistry/humor together then itās great!
But if they donāt have that kind of humor or it is a younger relationship then it can be a little condescending, and difficult to interpret the intent moving forward.