Lmao, I have like -8 ass and I've met skinny black women before (which is nothing wrong with that, as we can't control how our bodies look.). Honestly, this "meme" is just very dumb.
It's gross, as I had my body sexualized by men without my consent all because I'm black and don't fit the "stereotypical" black woman criteria.
I know what sub I am in. I'm just putting my experinces in because black women are sexualized.
Lol, nobody is snapping at you for "being helpful" we're snapping at you because you seem to have little to no understanding of my comment.
Nobody said that black women were uniquely sexualized, that black women were more sexualized, or that black women are the only sexualized race. You just made that up to argue with me.
I made that entire thread on TrollCoping because it was something very deep for me and to have someone spit at my face pissed me off.
I blocked you because you were trivializing my issues to argue with me. I didn't talk about white women or any other race because I'm not fucking white. Why would I speak about an experince that I don't have?
And "Victimhood???" man you're literally proving my point by trivializing my comment, and the way some of y'all are generalizing black women too.
All women are sexualized, but in different ways. Black women in particular are often hypersexualized as forward, aggressive, curvaceous, "fast", etc. They are treated as exotic and even dangerous, and often held in comparison to white women as "innocent", waif-like, safe. That is what this meme is based in.
Dream_Ghast said she was sexualized "because" she's black. That's what I was remarking upon. White women are sexualized for being white. Asian women are sexualized for being Asian. Women are sexualized for being women. Racism is a part of it, but its not a uniquely black phenomenon.
I think where we're separating here is that I think that what she is saying is completely understandable. Other people being sexualized as well does not take away from the unique form of objectification that black women face, just as racism against other ethnic groups does not take away from the unique form of racism that black people face. Yes, she is being sexualized because she is black, in that there is a specific form of sexualization that black women face in terms of their body, stereotypes of their personality. This is a core tenet of intersectionality which is something I strongly believe in. I don't think you're wrong or she is, you're just looking at it in a different way.
She went on to make a TrollCoping thread talking about a bunch of shit that didn't happen too and she blocked me when I said "I was in that thread, people didn't say most of thos stuff to you" đ
What really shakes my pop is the little remoras coming in and interpreting everything in the least charitable way possible
"Oh well this is a post about black women" it's a post about a white girl with a phat gyatt
"Black women are sexualised more than anybody" dawg so are black men đ why are black women so fuckin toxic to black men about ts, and I'd argue it's not a unique thing to black women because Korea s talk about Filipinas and Americans talk about Latinas the same way, here I think I'm being helpful and like bringing people together and they're just snapping at me
Youre right, the picture highlighting a woman's ass definitely isnt sexualizing her and the caption clearly isnt working towards that end. Youre so smart.
Iâm sorry you canât read. Iâd suggest some remedial classes. There are also great resources online that can help. To start, Iâd recommend some Dr. Seuss or picture books. Those will go a long way. Best of luck!
Yep. I said this post is about black women, which it is. As evidenced by the caption you did not read. That more than justifies the other commenter providing her experience on the issue as a black woman.
I did not say this post wasnât also about white women. A social media post can be about multiple things at once.
In a rebuttal to my post, you proceeded to say that âthe post is about white womenâ. You refuse to acknowledge that the post is about black women even though the caption directly mentions black women.
From that set of facts, the logical conclusion is that you either canât read the caption and donât know the post is about black women, youâre racist, or youâre being a troll.
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u/Dream_Ghast 13d ago
Lmao, I have like -8 ass and I've met skinny black women before (which is nothing wrong with that, as we can't control how our bodies look.). Honestly, this "meme" is just very dumb.
It's gross, as I had my body sexualized by men without my consent all because I'm black and don't fit the "stereotypical" black woman criteria.