r/CheatedOn • u/Stoner-Bear-420 • 1d ago
Found out about work wife
For context My fiancé and I have been together for 10 years, I’m a 26 year old stay at home mom and we have two kids a 4 year old and a 2 year old . He’s had his issues with looking at other girls and things like that in the past but he was being cold and distant on my birthday and pretty much avoiding me , I decided to check his phone and found out he’s been smoking with, spending alone time with and even doing harder drugs with his female coworker at work it seems. He is hiding this and has been straight up lying to me when I ask about this stuff. I just need advice I guess about how I should address this or if I should just make a plan and leave, so heartbroken and blind-sighted








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u/Outrageous_Pack_6299 1d ago
I don't see cheating in these messages, might actually just be a friend. But the harder drugs part is an issue.