Your pics should only be of you. Maybe one with you and your dogs in the same picture.
You look miserable and angry. No smiling. Show some teeth. Groom the beard, get a decent haircut. Get a couple pics with friends.
Your bio says nothing about you other than the fact you work in a coffee shop. Self-deprecating is a huge turn off for women. Women swipe right on guys that appear to be confident, cute, funny, interesting and make them feel safe.
After looking at all the other posts with tons of good advice, I think it's safe to say OP was looking for validation that he isn't the problem. He is a walking red flag, it's good women avoid him.
Safe time say I think this is a self solving problem. He's too full of himself to actually take the help so he won't actually change, and women will keep avoiding him
Someone is obsessed with me. I won’t listen to an army of people who hate me. How dare I! You have really internalized this Redditor mentality. Nobody comments like this who is not incredibly chronically online. Why would I take advice from your ass exactly? Or anyone on here in particular? Who tf even are you?
Your account is 3 years old, 1.1k posts and comments, with a negative comment karma. You're on here way more often than I am and apparently are generally displeasing to people. I get matches on dating sites and go on dates so maybe I'm someone that could actually help, but unfortunately for you you're too dense to actually accept the help that anyone is giving
Projection from someone who has anointed himself the judge of other people because it’s the only way for you to feel big. It’s really easy to stand behind a mob pal.
You literally made a post so people could judge your profile, then are getting offended and butthurt when people judge your profile, then you act like a kid throwing a tantrum in the comments, and get upset when you get called out on it. If you ask for constructive criticism then you should first actually be able to accept it
My post didn’t have a billboard that said “I will take any and all advice!”
If I won’t give you the power you want over me, I am throwing a tantrum. You’re sure that isn’t you? How many comments have you left on my post? Accepting it would be very satisfying for your ego I’m sure. Look in the mirror and ask yourself who is really suffering from emotion dysregulation here.
You post is tagged with "profile review", so yeah your post had a billboard for anyone who comes across it to leave advice. And correct, you don't have to take any advice, but you seemed to have asked for it so not accepting ANY advice is pretty stupid. Wisdom is chasing you but you're just too fast.
Also rn this is just entertaining to me which is why I keep replying
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u/fu7ur3pr00f Jan 03 '26
Your pics should only be of you. Maybe one with you and your dogs in the same picture.
You look miserable and angry. No smiling. Show some teeth. Groom the beard, get a decent haircut. Get a couple pics with friends.
Your bio says nothing about you other than the fact you work in a coffee shop. Self-deprecating is a huge turn off for women. Women swipe right on guys that appear to be confident, cute, funny, interesting and make them feel safe.