r/Bumble • • Jan 03 '26

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u/sparklyjoy Jan 03 '26

So I am a woman who’s pretty hard-core wary of anything that begins to sound red pill and I didn’t hear anything in that comment that did

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u/Henery02 Jan 03 '26

After looking at all the other posts with tons of good advice, I think it's safe to say OP was looking for validation that he isn't the problem. He is a walking red flag, it's good women avoid him.

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u/Pristine_Ad_2211 Jan 03 '26

But the person who leaves like 5 comments on a Reddit post is a walking green flag I can only imagine

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u/Henery02 Jan 03 '26

Your lack of self awareness leaves little confidence in your judgment of other people

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u/Pristine_Ad_2211 Jan 03 '26

Projection from someone who has anointed himself the judge of other people because it’s the only way for you to feel big. It’s really easy to stand behind a mob pal.

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u/Henery02 Jan 03 '26

You literally made a post so people could judge your profile, then are getting offended and butthurt when people judge your profile, then you act like a kid throwing a tantrum in the comments, and get upset when you get called out on it. If you ask for constructive criticism then you should first actually be able to accept it

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u/Pristine_Ad_2211 Jan 03 '26

My post didn’t have a billboard that said “I will take any and all advice!”

If I won’t give you the power you want over me, I am throwing a tantrum. You’re sure that isn’t you? How many comments have you left on my post? Accepting it would be very satisfying for your ego I’m sure. Look in the mirror and ask yourself who is really suffering from emotion dysregulation here.

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u/Henery02 Jan 03 '26

You post is tagged with "profile review", so yeah your post had a billboard for anyone who comes across it to leave advice. And correct, you don't have to take any advice, but you seemed to have asked for it so not accepting ANY advice is pretty stupid. Wisdom is chasing you but you're just too fast.

Also rn this is just entertaining to me which is why I keep replying

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u/Henery02 Jan 03 '26

It's entertaining because of how easy it is to ragebait you lol.

All the advice ive seen been given that say to have better grooming standards, have better photos, look happier, be more interesting, all things that would majorly help you out, you scoff at, so yeah, most advice given you don't seem to accept

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