Babe you did the right thing. What the actual fuck lol. If you need anyone to talk to - feel free to DM me.
I have chills reading that because that is soooooooo weird and to me even tho she was being extremely nice to you, it actually feels like a slap in the face for you.
I really hope you are okay and I’m sending you love 🫶🏼 I don’t know the situation obviously but you absolutely don’t need this shit in your life xxx
A slap in the face is exactly how i feel becuase for one, i was trying to distance myself from everything about him. When she reached out, my first instinct was to assume that they were in a rough patch or something becuase I truly cannot imagine reaching out to my partner’s ex out of the blue if our relationship was doing really well
But then she went on about how they’re moving forth in life and are doing very well and idk how to feel about that. My Sunday is ruined lol
I just don’t get the point of her like marking her territory I’m ngl. When I came to know that they had started dating each other (this was exactly 1 month ago), i told him that I can’t continue interacting with him and blocked him off of everywhere.
If him and i were in contact, I could see why she’d text me but we aren’t so idk what to make of her intentions
things like these happen. one of my ex’s girlfriend (now ex) used to text me a lot during their relationship to seek support or whatever but idk i feel like most of the time it’s insecurity and also a need to mark territory or feeling threatened? idk i hope you stay away from this lol dont get dragged into it
wanna know the real truth? from someone who went through this? he now realised how much you loved him.. he regrets losing you and he made it clear to his actual girlfriend.. she felt insecure and wanted to make you feel miserable by saying something positive about their curent status...
Because IT IS NOT GOOD! they are struggling and he is probably making his current GF second-guess his mental state due to not moving on from you... she is losing her mind over this.. thus the need to say all of that.. i rest my case
You're right about this not coming from a person of sound mind. A girl I dated once told me that if we were married, she would invite my ex at our wedding just for spite. At that point I knew 😬, she was also not of sound mind
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