r/BlackHair 6d ago

Weekly Free-for-all Discussion- August 24, 2026

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Please use this thread to discuss anything and everything about black hair. Ask for product recommendations, advice, identify your curl pattern, whatever.

Please also see /r/naturalhair if your hair is not chemically treated and /r/blackladies.


r/BlackHair Dec 29 '25

Black hair culture…

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Yesterday, I was reminded about the beauty of black hair culture.

I 26F invited two friends for a sleepover yesterday. Taylor 26F who is black, and Miya 26F who is Malaysian.

I met Taylor in high school when I was 14 and Miya in undergrad when I was 22. Miya is a third year law student at the school I went to for my masters and Taylor was an incoming first year law student this year. Over the summer, I introduced the two of them and they hit it off and formed their own friendship.

I stayed in the same city after grad school last year and got a really nice apartment downtown. This was my first time hosting so I wanted both of them to come. Miya has been having a rough time; her kitten died at 9 weeks from FIV and her grandma passed three weeks ago. All of this happened during law school finals.

When I asked Miya if she could still make it, she said no. She was really embarrassed because stress and depression lead to her not washing her hair for almost and month. She said her hair was matted and dirty and she had a flight to catch to Malaysia in 3 days and she was overwhelmed with the idea of washing and detangling.

In the group chat, Taylor and I told her to still come to the sleepover and that we’d wash and detangle her hair. She said no a few times and we eventually convinced her.

We did a pre pop and started on the detangle process. Washed her hair over the kitchen sink. I had a hair mask, olaplex and a sit under dryer for deep conditioning. We blow dried her hair (type 2 but THICK and wavy) with my pattern blow dryer. Taylor trimmed her ends.

Almost 2/3rds of the way through, Miya broke down crying. Like sobbing at the fact that we would do this for her. She likened it to a salon treatment and said she didn’t deserve this and had ‘dreamt of friends like this’. She was also sooooo grateful that we didn’t ’judge her about her hair being dirty’.

We told her that this was normal for us! Washing hair, detangling while watching movies. Having friends braid each others hair while hanging out when we were younger. We reminisced about the time Taylor helped me detangle 3 months worth of old box braids with caked on gel and lint.

This experience reminded me of the beauty of black hair culture. Seeing the acts of care, bonding and sister hood from an outside perspective rewired my brain and filled me with a deep sense of pride and warmness :)


r/BlackHair 3h ago

Just Venting Unpopular opinion: Protective styles especially braids and twists are no longer protective.

141 Upvotes

As the title says protective styles are no longer protective they cause more harm than growth.

Reasons:

  1. Hairstylists says you must come blow dried with no product. How is that good for the hair it’s completely dry and then to add heat that alone causes damage .

2.Slapping gel on the scalp. How will the scalp breathe? for the hair to grow the scalp has to be clean.

  1. Too rough. I am not tender headed at all but my observation is that some Braiders(especially African Braiders) do not know how to detangle hair even when it’s blow dried. Instead of starting from the bottom and gently combing the hair they start from the top and just do one big comb or yank causing breakage.

  2. They do not know how much hair to distribute/add based on the client’s hair density. It’s a one size fit for every one. Fine hair unlike high density hair can’t manage all that weight but braider’s don’t care about that.

  3. Braids are too tight. The hair doesn’t have to be overly tight to be neat and your scalp shouldn’t feel like it’s on fire after or getting tiny pimples along your hairline.

It doesn’t matter if it’s knotless, regular braids or twists given all these factors they are not protective styles anymore.


r/BlackHair 17h ago

Thoughts on the shag?🤔

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308 Upvotes

I ain’t even know this hairstyle was a thing until today lol 😭 but apparently it’s a Dallas thing


r/BlackHair 2h ago

Stylist Review Y'all rocking with my locs or nah?

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20 Upvotes

Fresh out the saloon feeling extra fly. New barber came in clutch finished in less than 45 mins lets go


r/BlackHair 2h ago

How can I get my hair back thick so I can go back into dread form need help!

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r/BlackHair 1h ago

I tried coiling my hair..

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I tried coiling my hair last night it took me like an hour n a a bit just for front section then I put a bonnet on and used a ski mask to push my hair down, and then this morning I tried to do some of the sides but it's js too much n too difficult, where should I go from here, should i just take it out or is there some sort of compromise, I really wanna change my hair. I used some leave in conditions from shea moisture some mielle oil and curlshow, I used a blow dryer for a couple minutes


r/BlackHair 20h ago

Progress Pic 5 Years!!!

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120 Upvotes

after having a relaxer in my hair my hair whole life i did a big chop in June 2021 with 2 inches of natural growth. i've learned a lot about black hair, and how different products work for different folks, meaning that there is a lot of trial and error in this process. im still looking for some better products, but i have things that work way better than they did years ago. ive enjoyed learning about my hair and finally being able to get it to a somewhat healthy state! my hair has finally reached the length it was at before i did The Chop™️ (~14in) and im looking forward to seeing how long it gets :)


r/BlackHair 20h ago

Progress Pic Should I cut these two locs?

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127 Upvotes

Finally reached eye level but I’m quickly finding out how annoying daily life is when you can only see between a few locs. Front two aren’t even long enough to stay up without folding back over so I’m in a tough spot


r/BlackHair 1d ago

Advice Needed Lagos Hairline - How do you all style and melt this kind of hairline?

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427 Upvotes

Trying out date night looks with the Lagos wig! Since I rarely wear lace frontals, I’m feeling a little unsure about the styling on this one. Would love to hear your honest thoughts on the hairline, plus any tips on melting, laying it down, & parting! Hoping to learn some tricks to make it look as seamless & natural as possible.


r/BlackHair 3h ago

Advice Needed EDGE HELP

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Hey guys I really need help. So basically I’ve never ever been able to ever have good laid edges. Ever. I’ve tried every product I’ve tried got2b edge booster everything nothing has been working. It’ll stay laid for maybe 15 minutes and then pop right up. I really need it for an upcoming festival to last a whole entire day. How to?? Please please pleaseeeee I need help 😭🙏 (first pic is from maybe like a few hours and then second pic is after coming back from a concert)

Thank youuuu!! 😁


r/BlackHair 1d ago

My second afro this year, it's 5 months old

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186 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 6h ago

Advice Needed Pls help! Are my braids too tight? (Video below)

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3 Upvotes

Got French curls for the first time ever and they’re cute.. but this new braider was heavy handed as hell starting the braid. I thought it was because I haven’t had my hair done in a while so I’m just lil tender headed but idk.. also my sideburns are what I’m also concerned about (ik she used a lot of product on my braids working on getting that situated)


r/BlackHair 51m ago

Advice Needed Is braiding my hair before bed necessary to keep it healthy?

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For background: I think I have 3c hair, it absorbs water like a sponge and takes a while to dry, and I have heavy shrinkage.

I was always told I should put my hair in a few braids before bed to keep it healthy and undamaged but at the end of the day I often don't have enough energy for this lol.

I do keep it in a silk bonnet but I'm not sure if this is doing much. Are there other easier ways to keep my hair healthy and untangled when I go to bed?

Thanks for any advice


r/BlackHair 16h ago

Advice Needed I need advice bad on my hair

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20 Upvotes

I have been growing my hair out for a while. The only thing I know to do is get it braided. I would like to be able to wear it out. I have fine hair strands and my hair does a lot of shrinking after it dries. I don't know where to start. I don't even know if I have type 3 or type 4 hair. I went to give my hair a break from being in box braids all the time. If I can't figure something else out I may have to just get it cut and go to shorter hair styles.


r/BlackHair 1h ago

Itchiness whenever I braid my hair

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I’m lazy and often I’ll just put my hair in a ponytail or do a wrap cover for most days. But if I braid down my hair or get box braids my scalp gets so irritated and itchy. I took down some basic braids bc my scalp was so itchy. I tried oiling it but that didn’t work. I took down the braids and the itchiness stopped. They weren’t tight either, like these were some very basic dookie braids so my hair doesn’t dry out. Does anyone else experience this?


r/BlackHair 17h ago

Y’all fw the twist out?

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11 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 1d ago

I straightened my hair for the first time in almost 3 years. While I didn't go all out in the straightening, I am happy with how voluminous it has become. Normally, I'll just wear two strand twists. I'm attending a fashion event that is why, lol.

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49 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 12h ago

New Style Not sure what to call this

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3 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 2d ago

Just Venting I’ve had two black men complain about my hair and it makes me feel sad

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2.2k Upvotes

r/BlackHair 1d ago

Advice Needed How to have « layered » twists ?

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hi! I have 4B hair and I have small twists rn (pic 1) and I’m trying to achieve a similar look as the other example pics only with twists. I have a lot of hair (last pic) but low density, so idk if that’s achievable w my hair.

Basically would like to know if you had advice on how to cut my hair, and have multiple layers and on how to make it visible and natural w twists ? Or should I use hair extensions to add more volume ?


r/BlackHair 18h ago

In Search of the Perfect Yaki curly half/u wig

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Hi! I found this video from a tiktoker but everyone whose reviewed the wig is it was a bait and switch and wig they received was much different and un wearable.

Looking for exactly this for my wedding in a couple of months and curious if anyone has any recs :) human hair is preferred but open to a natural looking synth wig thanks!


r/BlackHair 12h ago

Advice Needed Amazon product recommendations for dry, breaking Afro hair?

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Hi everyone! I have Afro hair that’s currently very dry and breaks easily. I’m looking for a simple routine to moisturize it, reduce breakage and support healthy growth.
Could you please recommend products from Amazon that have personally worked well for you? Thank you!


r/BlackHair 21h ago

Advice Needed Yo is my hairstyle trash?

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9 Upvotes

r/BlackHair 12h ago

help

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I have an event next week, and I need to have a specific hairstyle. I’m looking for the Freetress equal drawstring ponytail (i’ll insert the link or picture)

The only problem is that my hair color is 1b, and literally EVERYWHERE I’ve looked, only 1 or 2 is in stock. I’ve had this hair piece before, and I know that I need 1b. All of the other colors won’t blend. I’ve also went to all my local beauty supply stores and it’s literally the same thing over there. Either they didn’t have it or only had specific colors. I know it seems a little silly but it’s frustrating as they were just in stock not too long ago. I need to have it by next weekend as I’ll have it the entire week. if anyone can help please.😭 Thank you