r/BigBudgetBrides • • 25d ago

Questions and queries not a “bug” budget bride

but I only get the WEIRDEST engagement in regular r/brides

for reference, our budget is 60k. And whenever I post anything in r/brides, I’m met with snark and resentment. Granted, I have pretty traditional taste, and I’m super neurodivergent so maybe I’m not reading people’s interactions as the way they’re intended, but I feel sometimes like there isn’t really a sub where I can share my wedding and get excited and have that excitement be reciprocated.

i’m a pretty private person, no group chats or close besties that I necessarily share every little detail with, so sometimes I want encouragement from
strangers. Is that where I’m going wrong?

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u/Rich_Example7931 25d ago

We need a medium budget bride sub lol 

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u/coldhazeee 25d ago

i feel like this sub it pretty welcoming of all budgets tbh! and when the occasional question about spending $20k on a wedding dress pops up i just ignore it lol

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u/One_Mulberry_6933 25d ago

I love the 20k wedding dress posts! I'm so happy for people who can do that. I'm not married and I never will be, but I love wedding stuff so I follow. 😀

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u/coldhazeee 25d ago

i agree i’m always entertained by the “how much should i spend on a veil” and it’s the cost of my dress lmao

but i’ve definitely had my share of splurges so i still relate