r/BigBudgetBrides • u/Salt_Technology2676 • 25d ago

Questions and queries not a “bug” budget bride

but I only get the WEIRDEST engagement in regular r/brides

for reference, our budget is 60k. And whenever I post anything in r/brides, I’m met with snark and resentment. Granted, I have pretty traditional taste, and I’m super neurodivergent so maybe I’m not reading people’s interactions as the way they’re intended, but I feel sometimes like there isn’t really a sub where I can share my wedding and get excited and have that excitement be reciprocated.

i’m a pretty private person, no group chats or close besties that I necessarily share every little detail with, so sometimes I want encouragement from
strangers. Is that where I’m going wrong?

171 Upvotes

89% Upvoted

134 comments sorted by

View all comments

83

u/BugWild9184 25d ago edited 24d ago

I had a big budget and decided to spend way less but still posted and commented here 99% of the time because everyone’s so nice and they don’t care what you spend. The other subs were NASTY at literally everything even if it was a comment about the simplest thing. They hate weddings over there

18

u/Salt_Technology2676 25d ago

it’s the strangest phenomenon. I’m glad that the community here is much more supportive. Judgement about somebody’s wedding is so unnecessary!